Monthly archives for October, 2012

What to do With a Vulva

By Maria Merloni | Posted in ,S.E.X.October 27th, 2012 Yes, yes, I know we’ve had a lot of vulva talk lately and I’m still not done talking about the vulva.  Today I’m going to list the same seven parts of the vulva and comment on how to pleasure each part, whether that be self-pleasure or partner-pleasure. Before doing that, though, I want [...]

Five Sex Tips for Women about Men

Five Sex Tips for Women about Men
What she needs to know to make him happy in bed and change the power struggle Published on October 27, 2012 in Psychology Today by Laurie J. Watson, LMFT, LPC   1)       Men want to be desired too. As women we are socialized to be the objects of desire not the owners of desire.  We grow up thinking that sex is something that happens to us, [...]

Sex Talk Begins with What We Say to O...

October 22, 2012 by Mary Jo Rapini and blogged by barbdepree for MiddlesexMD Blog One of the advantages of having an advisory board is the different perspectives we bring to the same set of problems. In our last conversation with Mary Jo Rapini, the issue of body image came up: the fact that we women are sometimes our own worst enemies when [...]

What Porn Means to Us: Twenty Couples...

What Porn Means to Us: Twenty Couples on Tentacles, Baywatch, and the Skin Flicks They Share, Fear, and Imitate
By. Meaghan Winter A man I was dating told me that he liked watching anime scenes of sea creatures raping schoolgirls with their tentacles. His arousal bothered him. I was surprised to discover that it didn’t bother me, but my live-and-let-live attitude gave me pause: Was I colluding with misogyny? Conflicting studies have suggested that por [...]

Arousal Types: What Is Yours?

Arousal Types: What Is Yours?
By Petra Zebroff What gets women hot? Most of us do not analyze what exactly turns us on; arousal just seems to happen. It can appear at the strangest of times, coming upon us with the most unsuitable partners or taboo acts. Or arousal can be more predictable, with the heat coming from a favorite alluring sex scene in a movie or book. We may [...]

88 Strange But True Sex Facts by Lust...

88 Strange But True Sex Facts by
Compiled by:   1. A woman is more likely to want to commit adultery during ovulation than at any other time in her cycle. 2. Telling a convincing lie to someone is much more difficult when you find them sexually attractive. 3. Minute quantities of over 30 different substances have been identified in human semen. These [...]

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