Monthly archives for November, 2012

Anal Sex: Science’s Last Taboo By Debby Herben...


A new — and almost entirely unreported — study about anal sex and pain shows how little we really know about it That anal sex remains taboo may explain why a study about anodyspareunia – that is, pain during anal penetration – received little attention when it was published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy. […]

EROTICA: "Re-Union&qu...


By biggirl4bigfun We’re standing in front of his garage kissing like we’ve done many times before over the decades. It isn’t always here; we’ve made out in front of hotels, schools and libraries. But it’s familiar—his touch, his taste and I feel him starting to relent—to giving up his fight against our eventual coupling. This […]

A Treatise On Bea...

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By Lady Cheeky I think it’s the perceived imperfections in people that make them interesting and therefore … to me … more beautiful. If this photo were generated by a traditional adult industrial complex the blemishes on her legs, the folds and texture of her skin, the bra strap indentations, would all be airbrushed out. […]

Lady Cheeky is in Top 100 Sex Blogs 2012 – Between My She...

Lady Cheeky is in Top 100 Sex Blogs 2012 – Between My Sheets

I would like to thank Rori from Between My Sheets for listing this blog as #38 in her Top 100 Sex Blogs of 2012! Of course this couldn’t have happened if YOU didn’t vote for me! Sure, I campaigned (LOL) but YOU listened and supported me so thank you to all that voted and read […]

Me Jane, You Tarzan: The Politics of Sexual Polar...


BY LORI LOTHIAN ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED ON WWW.THEGOODMENPROJECT.COM 11/17/12  Lori Ann Lothian wants to know if she’s wrong for wanting to be ‘ravished’. First time I was ravished, I was 23. It was in a university building stairwell. He grabbed my hair in one fist, pressed me against the cool cement wall and kissed me with such ardor […]

The Psychology of S...

The Psychology of Slut

Kathryn Stamoulis, PhD explores the psychological effects of the word slut.

Come See Me at CatalystCon Ea...

Come See Me at CatalystCon East!

I’m so proud and honored to be part of a rockstar panel of women discussing body image and sexuality. I will be on a panel along with these fine women, Cathy Vartuli, Kelly Shibari, Heidi Anderson, and  N’Jaila Rhee in our session entitled: Does This Panel Make Me Look Fat?: Body Image and Sexuality. DESCRIPTION: Size and body image can […]

Take Charge Of Your Own Org...


By Elle Chase Originally Posted on Tuesday, November 13 2012 – In this fast food culture, women’s sexual release is often relegated to the back of the bus.  Nowhere is this more evident than in the female orgasm and how it’s attained. As a woman who went on a sexual discovery journey I learned a few […]

Great Potential for Great Fun by Candida Roya...

Great Potential for Great Fun by Candida Royalle

Originally published by The New York Times ( on 11/11/12 Does Pornography Deserve it’s Bad Rap?: Watching pornography is not inherently harmful to men or women. But I would offer some caveats. There are people who probably shouldn’t view porn, like those with poor body image or those who have been sexually victimized. Depending on […]

Orgasm: The Cure for Hunger in the Western Woman – Nicole Daedone – TED...


Nicole Daedone is a sought-after speaker, author, and educator focusing on the intersection between orgasm, intimacy, and life. She is the founder of OneTaste, a cutting-edge company bringing a new definition of orgasm to women. The practice at the heart of her work is called OM or Orgasmic Meditation. OM uniquely combines the tradition of […]


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Elle Talks w/ Tristan Taormino About Big, Beautiful Sex

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