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REVIEW: PicoBong Transformer

REVIEW: PicoBong Transformer

When I first saw the PicoBong Transformer, a long, flexible, double-ended vibrator, I immediately wondered if it would work for individuals with reach issues, like the full-figured folks I work with … and happily it does.   The Transformer is long and light: 25.4 x 1.2x 1.2 inches; 3.5 ounces. Most of that length is made […]

GLAMOUR MAGAZINE: Sex and Body Image ...


October, 28, 2015 GLAMOUR EDITOR’S NOTE: Welcome to our brand-new Smitten series What an Expert Says. Veteran author, lecturer, and sex educator Tristan Taormino will be interviewing fellow experts in the sex, dating, and relationships field to discuss important issues that many of us struggle with. For our first topic, Taormino talks to Elle Chase, […]

5 Steps to Giving a Great Penis Massa...

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By Elle Chase, ACS For anyone who’s heard about Tantra and has been daunted by the complexities of this eastern art of lovemaking, you might want to consider starting with a Lingam massage. In Tantra, the Lingam is the penis. In fact, in Sanskrit it means “a symbol of divine generative energy, esp. a phallus […]

GUEST POST: Lifestyle Blogger Sarah S...

GUEST POST: Lifestyle Blogger Sarah Sapora confronts the intersection of sex and body image

A Body of Confidence (or How I Stopped Thinking and Learned to Enjoy the Intimate and Unfamiliar)style Blogger Sarah Sapora confronts the intersection of By Sara Sapora, Confidence is not concrete. It is fluid and amoeba-like. Aqueous and ever changing. And just when you think you’re grasping it in your hands, it can trickle through […]

Will (Not) Work for Condoms


by Elle Chase I worked in a professional theatre company volunteering to do light, sound, house managing, set building and even producing in order to pay my dues and earn my way into the acting company. I did this all for no reward, no promise of a role or bit part. I did this to gain […]

Fifty Shades Of Grey: Has it Changed ...

Fifty Shades of Grey has repeated its runaway US sales success in Britain.

No matter how you feel about ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ one must admit it has opened up our national conversation about sexuality. By now, you’d have to be living under a rock if you haven’t at least heard of the E.L. James, Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon, let alone not read the trilogy. Fifty Shades is Twilight for the “Soccer Mom” set […]



TOP FIVE SEX TOYS OF 2014*   #1 THE CRAVE VESPER The CRAVE VESPER, is a genius of a sex toy. In fact I feel like a Dolt for even calling it a “toy.” The only nuance separating the Vesper from being classified as ‘fine jewelry’ is encrusting precious stones. Crave’s co-founder and in house product […]

EXCLUSIVE EXCERPT! Polly: Sex Culture...

EXCLUSIVE EXCERPT! Polly: Sex Culture Revolutionary

EXCLUSIVE EXCERPT! Polly: Sex Culture Revolutionary Sex parties. Latex. Hot air balloons.  What do those three things have in common? POLLY WHITTAKER.  If you’ve been involved in the world of sex culture, you probably know exactly who Polly is, if not, read on … Polly Whittaker (aka Polly Superstar) is a sex culture icon and revolutionary. I first heard of […]

Review: Lelo ORA, Oral Sex Simulator


By Elle Chase  |  9/18/14 What Is This “ORA” That You Speak Of?: Earlier this year, Lelo stepped into challenging territory by producing and marketing one of the most demanding of all orgasm invokers … the oral sex simulator. I couldn’t wait to try this, I mean oral sex is my favorite thing ever, to […]

It's National Orgasm Day: Take C...

It's National Orgasm Day: Take Charge of Your Own Orgasm!

By Elle Chase In this fast food culture, women’s sexual release is often relegated to the back of the bus.  Nowhere is this more evident than in the female orgasm and how it’s attained. As a woman who went on a sexual discovery journey I learned a few things on the way about orgasms in general and […]


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Elle Talks w/ Tristan Taormino About Big, Beautiful Sex

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