Posts in category Female Sexuality

GLAMOUR MAGAZINE: Sex and Body Image ...


October, 28, 2015 GLAMOUR EDITOR’S NOTE: Welcome to our brand-new Smitten series What an Expert Says. Veteran author, lecturer, and sex educator Tristan Taormino will be interviewing fellow experts in the sex, dating, and relationships field to discuss important issues that many of us struggle with. For our first topic, Taormino talks to Elle Chase, […]

GUEST POST: Lifestyle Blogger Sarah S...

GUEST POST: Lifestyle Blogger Sarah Sapora confronts the intersection of sex and body image

A Body of Confidence (or How I Stopped Thinking and Learned to Enjoy the Intimate and Unfamiliar)style Blogger Sarah Sapora confronts the intersection of By Sara Sapora, Confidence is not concrete. It is fluid and amoeba-like. Aqueous and ever changing. And just when you think you’re grasping it in your hands, it can trickle through […]

Fifty Shades Of Grey: Has it Changed ...

Fifty Shades of Grey has repeated its runaway US sales success in Britain.

No matter how you feel about ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ one must admit it has opened up our national conversation about sexuality. By now, you’d have to be living under a rock if you haven’t at least heard of the E.L. James, Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon, let alone not read the trilogy. Fifty Shades is Twilight for the “Soccer Mom” set […]



    I happen to live in Los Angeles where being over a size 8 is a felony. This can be depressing when I am searching for a cute bathing suit or a stylish pair of jeans in a city that considers the ‘norm’ a size 2. At those times I like to remind myself […]

Desperately Seeking Passion by Elle C...

Desperately Seeking Passion by Elle Chase for

 Originally published on on October 11, 2013 At the end of her sexless marriage, Elle Chase went on a journey to seek the one thing she never had. This is the story of what she found. Recently, after turning 40 and leaving a sexless marriage, I had come to the sobering realization I had […]

My First Time at a Sex Shop: A Tribut...

My First Time at a Sex Shop: A Tribute of Sorts

by Lady Cheeky I was about 25 in the mid 90’s when a good friend was shocked to find out that I didn’t own a sex toy … a vibrator to be exact. At the time, I was horrified to hear her mention my name in the same sentence as the word “vibrator.” For my […]

Australia Doesn't Want You to Se...

Australia Doesn't Want You to See What a Vagina Looks Like (NSFW) by Elle Chase

By Elle Chase   This week, I found three year old article on online regarding Australian Classification Board’s (think the the Australian version of the MPAA except it includes all video games, films and published materials) censorship of the natural state of a woman’s vulva in magazines. In it, journalist Mia Freedman (who also wrote the pieces I’ve linked to below) describes it in […]

Antonia Crane makes sure 'Aftern...

Antonia Crane makes sure 'Afternoon Delight' gets strip club right (LA Times)

By Cristy Lytal      For the LA Times -July 27, 2013, 8:00 a.m. –   Not only does Antonia Crane know her way around a movie set, she also knows her way around a stripper pole. As someone with experience as an exotic dancer, Crane served as an expert consultant for Film Arcade’s “Afternoon Delight,” which […]

G-Spot Hunting: How to Find It …...

G-Spot Hunting: How to Find It ... and Its Elusive Orgasm

By Elle “Lady Cheeky” Chase,   Originally posted on on July 9, 2013 Ah the Grafenberg spot or, more commonly the the “G-spot.” It’s a confounding mystery for some and an enticing adventure for others. Although you may have heard otherwise, many women report that it does exist and can be the originator of intense and pleasurable […]

Let's Masturbate!: Experimenting...

Travel photography Netherlands North Holland sex and prostitution in Amsterdam

When I finally discovered my sensuality at age 40, I couldn’t stop masturbating. I touched myself morning, noon and night. In front of the TV, while I was on the phone, laying in bed next to my (soon to be ex) husband. I even did it while waiting in an interminable line in the drive-thru […]


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Elle Talks w/ Tristan Taormino About Big, Beautiful Sex

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