Posts in category Sexuality

5 Steps to Giving a Great Penis Massa...

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By Elle Chase, ACS For anyone who’s heard about Tantra and has been daunted by the complexities of this eastern art of lovemaking, you might want to consider starting with a Lingam massage. In Tantra, the Lingam is the penis. In fact, in Sanskrit it means “a symbol of divine generative energy, esp. a phallus […]

Fifty Shades Of Grey: Has it Changed ...

Fifty Shades of Grey has repeated its runaway US sales success in Britain.

No matter how you feel about ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ one must admit it has opened up our national conversation about sexuality. By now, you’d have to be living under a rock if you haven’t at least heard of the E.L. James, Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon, let alone not read the trilogy. Fifty Shades is Twilight for the “Soccer Mom” set […]

EXCLUSIVE EXCERPT! Polly: Sex Culture...

EXCLUSIVE EXCERPT! Polly: Sex Culture Revolutionary

EXCLUSIVE EXCERPT! Polly: Sex Culture Revolutionary Sex parties. Latex. Hot air balloons.  What do those three things have in common? POLLY WHITTAKER.  If you’ve been involved in the world of sex culture, you probably know exactly who Polly is, if not, read on … Polly Whittaker (aka Polly Superstar) is a sex culture icon and revolutionary. I first heard of […]

It's National Orgasm Day: Take C...

It's National Orgasm Day: Take Charge of Your Own Orgasm!

By Elle Chase In this fast food culture, women’s sexual release is often relegated to the back of the bus.  Nowhere is this more evident than in the female orgasm and how it’s attained. As a woman who went on a sexual discovery journey I learned a few things on the way about orgasms in general and […]

Desert Showgirls: The Snickers Bar of...

Desert Showgirls: The Snickers Bar of Strip Clubs  by Antonia Crane (Author of "SPENT)

Originally Posted on  3/3/13 As usual, I drifted off to the True Crime channel at 3a.m. after stripping for 13 hours straight then L and I slept in a double bed in the Motel 6 off Highway 111 to save some dough. L sleeps exactly like me; I don’t even hear her breathe. She’s stiff and […]



George Bernard Shaw once said, “The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place”. Never has this been more apropos than in communicating our sexual desires to our partner. Let’s face it, telling your lover that you would like him to kiss you more gently or maybe even spank you […]



    I happen to live in Los Angeles where being over a size 8 is a felony. This can be depressing when I am searching for a cute bathing suit or a stylish pair of jeans in a city that considers the ‘norm’ a size 2. At those times I like to remind myself […]

50 Things Maggie Mayhem Has Been Mean...

50 Things Maggie Mayhem Has Been Meaning To Say About Sex

This list and it’s original title “50 Things I’ve Been Meaning To Say About Sex” originally appeared on on November 8, 2013.  If you don’t know who Maggie Mayhem is, you should – in my opinion she is one of the great minds of the sex-positive movement. I loved this list so much I wanted to […]

ANME 2014 Brings Some Fun, Future Sex...

Me, Tristan Taormino and The Redhead Bedhead after interviews for Sex Out Loud Radio at ANME

Twice a year, the Adult Novelty Manufacturers Expo (ANME) gathers pleasure product companies from far and wide and sets up space to show future wares, cool innovations as well as shill already existing products, all for the benefit of retailers. Often, organizers and exhibitors schedule ‘events within the event’ to publicize their products and entertain […]

Desperately Seeking Passion by Elle C...

Desperately Seeking Passion by Elle Chase for

 Originally published on on October 11, 2013 At the end of her sexless marriage, Elle Chase went on a journey to seek the one thing she never had. This is the story of what she found. Recently, after turning 40 and leaving a sexless marriage, I had come to the sobering realization I had […]


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