Posts in category Dating

5 Reasons Online Dating is Practicall...


By JoEllen Notte, June 2, 2014    5 Reasons Online Dating is Made for Introverts  Online dating gets a bad rap. Folks like to blame it for killing everything from monogamy and traditional dating to love and marriage. Folks seem to think there’s too much virtual communicating and not enough “real” connecting; that there’s decreased […]

20 Things I Didn't Know About Lo...

20 Things I Didn't Know About Love, Sex and Dating Until I Hit 40 ~ by Elle Chase

When going to a swinger’s retreat, make certain your partner isn’t packing a tiny, leather, Borat-style “unikini“ to wear at the poolside fashion show. Being “in love” and being “in lust” are both very disparate and different things that deceptively, can seem like one and the same. Sex is messy. You’ll need a towel. When […]

Emergency Contraception: Know the Fac...


          In early 2013, Emergency Contraceptive Pills (ECP’s) otherwise known as “The Morning After Pill” were approved by the FDA for over the counter (OTC) sales beginning in August 2013. Since then, there has been some confusion as to how to get it and who can get it in different states. […]



    I happen to live in Los Angeles where being over a size 8 is a felony. This can be depressing when I am searching for a cute bathing suit or a stylish pair of jeans in a city that considers the ‘norm’ a size 2. At those times I like to remind myself […]

Op Ed: The Joy of Sexing a Gentleman

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By Lady Cheeky – Originally published on this site 9/27/2011 Dating in Los Angeles. I’m starting to realize it is the rare man who is actually a “gentleman.” Yes, I consider myself a feminist and a strong woman. But, I am also … a “lady.” I believe you can be both at the same time. […]

Carpe Sex! How To Change Your Sexual ...


Originally published on – January 14 2013 Ahhh January – the crisp, bracing air, the relief that the holidays are behind us and the optimistic promise of a whole new year ahead. Each January my friends, colleagues and nosy grocery store clerks ask me the dreaded question “have you made any New Year’s resolution’s?” My reply […]

Not Opposed or Entirely Different by ...

Not Opposed or Entirely Different by Lady Cheeky

Just because I am open does not mean I let everyone in Just because I let you in doesn’t mean I do it for everyone Just because you get a second chance doesn’t mean you’ll get a third Just because I have some hard edges doesn’t mean I’m not soft Just because I flirt with […]

Vulnerability, the last taboo? By Cyn...


Originally published on on 5/30/12 In fragile times, it’s often our most intimate and close relationships that suffer. Intimacy is the glue, the enhancer that gives us the drive to connect, and in many situations, also the factor that can be a passion killer for some and the straw that breaks the camel’s back. I […]

The Sex Before The Sex by Kim Anami

The Sex Before The Sex by Kim Anami

*I wish there were more articles written about how important this is to any relationship. This is concise and accurate. I’ve always said “it takes at least a week to seduce a woman” … I’m glad other people agree. What do you think? * Originally published on 9/21/12 on I’m into mindf**king. I like […]

A Users Guide: How To Show Up To F*ck...


By Nicole Daedone Originally posted on her site on August 8, 2012 This is what I have come to understand.  There is absolutely zero context for men to know how to fuck a Turned On Woman—meaning a woman who is free, who is capable of what I call Unconditional Sex; sex that is not […]


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