Posts in category Dating

5 Reasons Online Dating is Practically Made for Introverts by The Redhead Bedh...


By JoEllen Notte, June 2, 2014    5 Reasons Online Dating is Made for Introverts  Online dating gets a bad rap. Folks like to blame it for killing everything from monogamy and traditional dating to love and marriage. Folks seem to think there’s too much virtual communicating and not enough “real” connecting; that there’s decreased […]

20 Things I Didn't Know About Love, Sex and Dating Until I Hit 40 ~ by Elle Ch...

20 Things I Didn't Know About Love, Sex and Dating Until I Hit 40 ~ by Elle Chase

When going to a swinger’s retreat, make certain your partner isn’t packing a tiny, leather, Borat-style “unikini“ to wear at the poolside fashion show. Being “in love” and being “in lust” are both very disparate and different things that deceptively, can seem like one and the same. Sex is messy. You’ll need a towel. When […]

Emergency Contraception: Know the Facts by Elle Ch...


          In early 2013, Emergency Contraceptive Pills (ECP’s) otherwise known as “The Morning After Pill” were approved by the FDA for over the counter (OTC) sales beginning in August 2013. Since then, there has been some confusion as to how to get it and who can get it in different states. […]



    I happen to live in Los Angeles where being over a size 8 is a felony. This can be depressing when I am searching for a cute bathing suit or a stylish pair of jeans in a city that considers the ‘norm’ a size 2. At those times I like to remind myself […]

Los Angeles: Lady Cheeky's Free Workshop: Big Beautiful Sex at The Pleasure Ch...


Who says you have to be skinny to have the best sex of your life? Whether it’s media and advertising images of “perfect” bodies or snarky comments about our weight, fat-shaming is all around us, and it can get in the way of our sexual confidence and pleasure. In this workshop, which combines lecture and […]

Op Ed: The Joy of Sexing a Gentle...

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By Lady Cheeky – Originally published on this site 9/27/2011 Dating in Los Angeles. I’m starting to realize it is the rare man who is actually a “gentleman.” Yes, I consider myself a feminist and a strong woman. But, I am also … a “lady.” I believe you can be both at the same time. […]

4 Deadly Dating Mistakes Men M...

4 Deadly Dating Mistakes Men Make

By Nicole Forrestor   Originally published on The Huffington Post/Canada on 1/28/13 It’s Friday and my phone is ringing. It’s from a guy I’ve been talking to and had arbitrarily decided to go for drinks early in the week. Given our busy schedules, he was supposed to call and confirm our plans on Monday, and […]

Carpe Sex! How To Change Your Sexual Attitude by Lady Che...


Originally published on – January 14 2013 Ahhh January – the crisp, bracing air, the relief that the holidays are behind us and the optimistic promise of a whole new year ahead. Each January my friends, colleagues and nosy grocery store clerks ask me the dreaded question “have you made any New Year’s resolution’s?” My reply […]

Not Opposed or Entirely Different by Lady Che...

Not Opposed or Entirely Different by Lady Cheeky

Just because I am open does not mean I let everyone in Just because I let you in doesn’t mean I do it for everyone Just because you get a second chance doesn’t mean you’ll get a third Just because I have some hard edges doesn’t mean I’m not soft Just because I flirt with […]

A Users Guide: How To Show Up to F*ck a Turned On Woman by Nicole Daed...


I loved this when I first read it and recently went back to it again. So smart. -LC By Nicole Daedone  Originally published on her blog on 8/8/12 This is what I have come to understand. There is absolutely zero context for men to know how to fuck a Turned On Woman—meaning a woman who […]


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