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5 Steps to Giving a Great Penis Massa...

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By Elle Chase, ACS For anyone who’s heard about Tantra and has been daunted by the complexities of this eastern art of lovemaking, you might want to consider starting with a Lingam massage. In Tantra, the Lingam is the penis. In fact, in Sanskrit it means “a symbol of divine generative energy, esp. a phallus […]

20 Things I Didn't Know About Lo...

20 Things I Didn't Know About Love, Sex and Dating Until I Hit 40 ~ by Elle Chase

When going to a swinger’s retreat, make certain your partner isn’t packing a tiny, leather, Borat-style “unikini“ to wear at the poolside fashion show. Being “in love” and being “in lust” are both very disparate and different things that deceptively, can seem like one and the same. Sex is messy. You’ll need a towel. When […]

Smutty Smarty of Sex: Ken Melvoin-Ber...

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Ken Melvoin Berg … (swoon) … Ken Melvoin Berg … “say it loud and there’s music play-ing,                             … say it soft, and it’s almost like pray-ing” I don’t break out the West Side Story for just anyone so you can probably guess […]

Smutty Smarty of Sex: Jon Pressick of...

Smutty Smarty of Sex: Jon Pressick of Sex In Words

I first met Toronto area sex journalist Jon Pressick on online (of course) when his Tweet made me blush. I don’t remember the circumstance, but I know making me blush ain’t easy. A fan of his popular sex blog SEX IN WORDS, I would often retweet /re-blog some (ok ALL) of what he posted on his […]

Smaller Package, Better Lover?

Smaller Package, Better Lover?

by Melissa White       (originally posted in Huffington Post Women on 09/26/2013 5:55 pm) Condom Expert, CEO & Founder of Lucky Bloke (Check out my quote in this article!) It truly is all about the size of the package — but not in the way that you might think. It’s time to take a […]

Op Ed: The Joy of Sexing a Gentleman

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By Lady Cheeky – Originally published on this site 9/27/2011 Dating in Los Angeles. I’m starting to realize it is the rare man who is actually a “gentleman.” Yes, I consider myself a feminist and a strong woman. But, I am also … a “lady.” I believe you can be both at the same time. […]

Michael Douglas Was Right: What You N...


By Lady Cheeky In the past few weeks, the media has been rife with stories about actor Michael Douglas’ claim that his recent bout with throat cancer was caused by HPV.  HPV (short for Human Papillomavirus) is a sexually transmitted disease with over 150 strains, 40 of which directly affect our mucus membranes, making its transmission […]

Vulnerability, the last taboo? By Cyn...


Originally published on on 5/30/12 In fragile times, it’s often our most intimate and close relationships that suffer. Intimacy is the glue, the enhancer that gives us the drive to connect, and in many situations, also the factor that can be a passion killer for some and the straw that breaks the camel’s back. I […]

The Pleasure in Giving Pleasure By C...

The Pleasure in Giving Pleasure  By Camille Crimson

If you’re here, then you must like smut and you must be smart.  That makes you my kind of person.  When Lady Cheeky and I were talking about some type of guest post/collaboration for the site, we were very much on the same page right from the beginning, with ideas firing off left, right and […]


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