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20 Things I Didn’t Know About L...

20 Things I Didn’t Know About Love, Sex and Dating Until I Hit 40 ~ by Elle Chase
When going to a swinger’s retreat, make certain your partner isn’t packing a tiny, leather, Borat-style “unikini“ to wear at the poolside fashion show. Being “in love” and being “in lust” are both very disparate and different things that deceptively, can seem like one and the same. Sex is messy. You [...]

Smutty Smarty of Sex: Ken Melvoin-Ber...

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Ken Melvoin Berg … (swoon) … Ken Melvoin Berg … “say it loud and there’s music play-ing,                             … say it soft, and it’s almost like pray-ing” I don’t break out the West Side Story for just anyone so you can probably guess I have a big, ol’ stupid, sloppy, dippy, [...]

Smutty Smarty of Sex: Jon Pressick of...

Smutty Smarty of Sex: Jon Pressick of Sex In Words
I first met Toronto area sex journalist Jon Pressick on online (of course) when his Tweet made me blush. I don’t remember the circumstance, but I know making me blush ain’t easy. A fan of his popular sex blog SEX IN WORDS, I would often retweet /re-blog some (ok ALL) of what he posted on his site. We struck up a conversation [...]

Smaller Package, Better Lover?

Smaller Package, Better Lover?
by Melissa White       (originally posted in Huffington Post Women on 09/26/2013 5:55 pm) Condom Expert, CEO & Founder of Lucky Bloke (Check out my quote in this article!) It truly is all about the size of the package — but not in the way that you might think. It’s time to take a stand: regarding penis size, and what it means [...]

Op Ed: The Joy of Sexing a Gentleman

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By Lady Cheeky – Originally published on this site 9/27/2011 Dating in Los Angeles. I’m starting to realize it is the rare man who is actually a “gentleman.” Yes, I consider myself a feminist and a strong woman. But, I am also … a “lady.” I believe you can be both at the same time.  I want to believe that there are men out [...]

Get Him Off With This Massage by Elle...

Get Him Off With This Massage by Elle Chase
Photo from: www.sulit.com.ph This article originally appeared on www.DatingAdvice.com  For anyone who’s heard about Tantra and has been daunted by the complexities of this eastern art of lovemaking, you might want to consider starting with a Lingam massage. In Tantra, the Lingam is the penis. In fact, in Sanskrit it means “a symbol of divine [...]

Michael Douglas Was Right: What You N...

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By Lady Cheeky In the past few weeks, the media has been rife with stories about actor Michael Douglas’ claim that his recent bout with throat cancer was caused by HPV.  HPV (short for Human Papillomavirus) is a sexually transmitted disease with over 150 strains, 40 of which directly affect our mucus membranes, making its transmission through [...]

4 Deadly Dating Mistakes Men Make

4 Deadly Dating Mistakes Men Make
By Nicole Forrestor   Originally published on The Huffington Post/Canada on 1/28/13 It’s Friday and my phone is ringing. It’s from a guy I’ve been talking to and had arbitrarily decided to go for drinks early in the week. Given our busy schedules, he was supposed to call and confirm our plans on Monday, and here it was Frid [...]

A Users Guide: How To Show Up to F*ck...

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I loved this when I first read it and recently went back to it again. So smart. -LC By Nicole Daedone  Originally published on her blog www.NicoleDaedone.com on 8/8/12 This is what I have come to understand. There is absolutely zero context for men to know how to fuck a Turned On Woman—meaning a woman who is free, who is capable of what I cal [...]

Vulnerability, the last taboo? By Cyn...

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Originally published on www.CyndiDarnell.com on 5/30/12 In fragile times, it’s often our most intimate and close relationships that suffer. Intimacy is the glue, the enhancer that gives us the drive to connect, and in many situations, also the factor that can be a passion killer for some and the straw that breaks the camel’s back. I have bee [...]

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