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My Secret Luxury: The Lady Cheeky Luxury Sex Toy Recommendations

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logoLadyCheeky_pluralI was recently asked by the folks at My Secret Luxury to list a few of my favorite sex toys. I came up with this list and I thought I’d share. But … be sure to check out the other sexperts picks! The MamaSutra, Emerald, Shanna Katz, Cooper Beckett, The Redhead Bedhead, Rori of Between My Sheets and Drs. Steve & Vera Bodansky. I’m thrilled to be in such great company!

The Lady Cheeky recommends…

Jimmyjane FORM 2 Vibrator - I like my vibrator to have at least one stroooonnng setting and this delivers. I’ve traveled all over the country with mine and because it’s made impeccably, the FORM 2 takes a lick’ and keeps on ticking’!

We-Vibe 3 Vibrator - Many toys in one. Use it by yourself alone or with a dildo, use with your partner. The size is perfect for vaginal, g-spot, clitoral or anal stimulation. We-Vibe 3 has a remote AND is 40% stronger than the pervious versions.

Aneros Peridise Anal Set - Fantastic shape for men and women alike who enjoy anal play.

Aneros Evi Kegel Exerciser - I’ve said it before, “EVI is like a barbell for your lady bits.” The EVI is absolutely the BEST kegel exercisers on the market. I’ve actually drive with it in. It’s THAT comfortable.

Yes Butter Lubricant - I love this product because it’s all natural, lasts forever and has multiple uses. It’s my go to lube for sex, dry skin repair, lip balm and to tame flyaway hairs. How many things can you say that about?!?!

Tantus Purr Vibe Dildo - In my opinion, Tantus makes the best dildos around. Not only arew the shapes delicious, their commitment to manufacturing a pristine and safe producy makes me feel confiden about what I’m playing with.

Jimmyjane HELLO TOUCH Vibrator - Um. Wow. Because the vibration is attached to fingers, it makes “vibrator” masturbation more intimate and sensual. I simply love it.

Jimmyjane Iconic Rabbit Vibrator - It’s a good size, great strength and…is made well. I’ve had mine for 5 years and it still looks new and works as well as it did when I bought it. Other brands either weren’t strong enough…or had too many bells and whistles and most often weren’t made as well.

Check out MY SECRET LUXURY at http://www.MySecretLuxury.com

 

I’m In BAWDY STORYTELLING ‘No Holds Barred’ Next Week!

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BawdyLA-April-24-ElCidI’m excited and terrified to be a part of the illustrious Bawdy Storytelling in Los Angeles this coming Wednesday, April 24th at El Cid!

Please come by and enjoy the Tapas, delicious drinks and salacious stories, some funny … some moving, but ALWAYS entertaining. The evening is part “Slam” so bring your own story of turgid temptation and fervid fornication and win prizes and compete for the best storyteller of the month trophy!

For the past six years, Bawdy Storytelling has been entertaining, educating, and erectifying™ audiences around the country. Known as “The Moth for Pervs,” and “The Raunchiest show you’ll ever see in which everyone keeps their clothes on…,” Bawdy features Real people and Sexual Rockstars sharing their honest and awesome sexual exploits in 10 minutes or less – we’re talking no scripts, no nets, and no filters. Hostess/Curator Dixie De La Tour revels in bringing the unexpected, hilarious and transcendent to the stage, so join her and some surprising local heroes for a Wednesday night that’s sure to spur you to make that shared taxi more than just a ride home.

On April 24th, Bawdy Storytelling, join us at the gorgeous El Cid in Silver Lake for ‘No Holds Barred,’ (known as ‘No Holes Barred’ to our close friends)… but whatever you call it, we’re talking about making your own rules in, out, and around the sheets. Bawdy’s true tales of carnal wins and epic fails never fail to sinspire™ people to create a few new stories of their own after the show – and when you do, contact Dixie to share it. Our aim: we want YOU on our stage. Telling your story will change your life!

Tickets $12 in Advance at 
http://noholdsbarredla.eventbrite.com/

$15 Cash at the Door
Remember: Doors at 7:30, Stories at 8:30

ED CID
4212 W Sunset Blvd., Los Angeles, CA
(323) 668-0318FACEBOOK: ‘NO HOLDS BARRED’ EVENT PAGE
TWITTER: @Bawdy
WEB: www.BawdyStorytelling.com

- Writer, speaker and sex-positive activist, Lady Cheeky’s (Elle Chase) unique taste in sensual images and commitment to body- positive and integrative sensuality, speaks to a wide breadth of age groups across all gender, socio-economic, geographic and educational platforms.Lady Cheeky curates popular feminist, sensual images blogwww.LadyCheeky.com which focuses on depicting real desire and passion with a strong emphasis toward positive body image and is proud to have “the most viewed sensual images blog on Tumblr with over 40k followers.” On her sister site, http://www.SmutForSmarties.com/, Lady Cheeky created a blog where readers can enjoy a wide breadth of articles and original erotica with a feminist, sex and body positive perspective. Both Lady Cheeky branded websites have been included in many top sex blogs lists from Get Lusty’s Top 10 Sex Blogs to Between My Sheet Top 100 Sex Blogs of 2012.

As a writer, Lady Cheeky is a regular contributor to the online magazinewww.EvolvedWorld.com and has been featured on The Frisky, Fleshbot, TheRumpus, Corset Magazine, and Rachel Kramer Bussel’s erotica anthology “The Big Book of Orgasms: 69 Sexy Stories” Most recently, Lady Cheeky was interviewed for Sheona McDonald’s CBC documentary on women, pornography and technology slated for a 2014 release.

- Our musical guest Holiday Hadley is a charismatic LA based singer-songwriter and pop siren. “Her willowy, sultry appear evokes Michelle Pfeiffer in “The Fabulous Baker Boys,” with rock-tinged chops that should have fans begging for more.” (LA Times). Her debut album “Beachwood Canyon” was released in 2012.

“LADY CHEEKY’S SEX SATORI” from THE RUMPUS

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Photo by Gene Reed

Photo by Gene Reed

BY   4/5/13

Orginally appeared on TheRumpus.net  

Tweet sex sites are a many splendored thing, opening doors to fluid identities that are both sexy and risk-free while erecting an emotional firewall to avoid real, personal rejection. My hackles go up whenever I think about technology replacing human touch, but when I met Lady Cheeky and heard her story of seeking and finding passion via tweet sex, I witnessed a brave new world where one woman’s sexuality was accessed in an accelerated way that involved wooing, teasing, and palpable passion.

“Lady Cheeky” is her Anglophile cybersex identity name, where she is a servant/vessel/wench. We met on the floor at Marilyn Friedman’s essay writing workshop, which I signed up for during a dark time. After dozens of agent rejections flooded my inbox for over a year, I longed to sit in a room with other writers again, hoping to inject my writing with joy by learning new literary tricks from veteran journalist, Taffy Brodesser-Akner. Our assignment was to tell the group what our essay was about and then say one more line declaring what our essay was “really” about.

Lady Cheeky’s wavy, Lucille Ball hair matched her bright red lips. Her curves punched out of her ’40s frock, as she told a hilarious topsy-turvy tale about role-playing on a True Blood-themed, Twitter-based direct message and tweet stream, which led her to start her smart and sexy websites where she met “Lord Byron,” hired a P.I. to check another lover out, and divorced her husband. She also overcame a rare sexual disorder; started a popular sensual images blog; began writing and publishing real-life erotica based on her new, passion-filled experiences; is in the process of working on a memoir; has a new story in Rachel Kramer Bussel’s upcoming erotica anthology, The Big Book of Orgasm; and is currently speaking about body image and sensuality, as well as integrative sensuality.

Lady Cheeky’s story beneath the story was flesh and bone ache deriving from a phantom limb that was pummeled awake by HBO’s True Blood series. I wanted to know more about how True Blood was the springboard to becoming a sexually actualized woman, capable and deserving of passion.

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Inside Her Sex: Documentary Looking For Subjects

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cropped-logo-mast-wordpressnewA couple of months ago I was filmed for an upcoming documentary by Canadian filmmaker, Sheona McDonald that will be released next year. The working title is Inside Her Sex and explores how women’s sexuality is influenced by pornography and technology. It’s a huge subject but she’s interested in keeping it broad for now because the avenues are great and the people she’s  are meeting fantastic.
Sheona is always interested in talking to people who can provide insight on the subject  – authors, filmmakers, educators, activists, explorers, etc. - and is always up for suggestions on things to read and look at.
She is also interested in talking to women who are embarking, or have embarked on a significant journey of sexual discovery (whatever this may be) that they are willing to share. So, if you are interested or might know someone who is, please feel free to pass this request on with her contact info (below).

 

Sheona McDonald

sheona@dimestore.org

www.dimestore.ca

 

Check out their latest film:
www.cbc.ca/whendreamstakeflight

and also …

www.capturingashortlife.com
www.whendreamstakeflight.com

CatalystCon Speaker Spotlight: Lady Cheeky

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Lady Cheeky is presenting Does This Panel Make Me Look Fat?: Body Image and Sexuality. Check out Lady Cheeky’s bio here.

How do you see yourself as a catalyst for change?

I think anyone is a catalyst for change who actively pursues being a part of the discussion about how to change an outmoded ideal. Hopefully, this pursuit never ends but becomes more passionate with each endeavor.

Who or what was a catalyst for you?

My blogs. Being able to express myself, unexpurgated gave me the freedom to make significant changes in my life.

What do you feel are some of the biggest challenges or concerns facing us in the field of sexuality right now?

Getting the meme out to the world that sexuality is as natural as breathing in a way that doesn’t seem preachy or “woo-woo” so that people from all walks of life can understand it.

Read the rest on the CatalystCon Blog

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