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Will (Not) Work for Condoms

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by Elle Chase I worked in a professional theatre company volunteering to do light, sound, house managing, set building and even producing in order to pay my dues and earn my way into the acting company. I did this all for no reward, no promise of a role or bit part. I did this to gain […]

20 Things I Didn’t Know About L...

20 Things I Didn’t Know About Love, Sex and Dating Until I Hit 40 ~ by Elle Chase

When going to a swinger’s retreat, make certain your partner isn’t packing a tiny, leather, Borat-style “unikini“ to wear at the poolside fashion show. Being “in love” and being “in lust” are both very disparate and different things that deceptively, can seem like one and the same. Sex is messy. You’ll need a towel. When […]

Besides Sex, What Makes You Feel R...

Besides Sex, What Makes You Feel “Alive?”  by Elle Chase

 Anais Nin and Henry Miller on Death and Dreams: I stumbled upon the above clip of Anais Nin and Henry Miller in conversation recently and couldn’t stop watching it. Two famous lovers, colleagues, icons, writers, discuss death and dreams in sometimes simple and at other times esoteric way. To me, this is a sapiosexuals dream […]

Secrets and Shadows by Spanking Thea...

Secrets and Shadows  by Spanking Theatre

What would be your reaction if you watched a mainstream movie with friends or family that contained a scene like this? Ostentatious delight or embarrassed chuckles? Come to think of it, how many people know of your most cherished fantasies? Have you ever felt awkward about keeping them secret? Here’s a passage that might get […]

Not Opposed or Entirely Different by ...

Not Opposed or Entirely Different by Lady Cheeky

Just because I am open does not mean I let everyone in Just because I let you in doesn’t mean I do it for everyone Just because you get a second chance doesn’t mean you’ll get a third Just because I have some hard edges doesn’t mean I’m not soft Just because I flirt with […]

The Pleasure in Giving Pleasure By C...

The Pleasure in Giving Pleasure  By Camille Crimson

If you’re here, then you must like smut and you must be smart.  That makes you my kind of person.  When Lady Cheeky and I were talking about some type of guest post/collaboration for the site, we were very much on the same page right from the beginning, with ideas firing off left, right and […]

One of my favorite love scenes from l...

One of my favorite love scenes from literature …

PLAYBOY OF THE WESTERN WORLD     BY JM SYNGE CHRISTY MAHON: It’s little you’ll think if my love’s a poacher’s love or an earl’s itself, when you’ll feel my two hands stretched around you, and I squeezing kisses on your puckered lips, till I’d feel a kind of pity for the Lord God (who) […]

I Just Finished “50 Shades of G...

I Just Finished “50 Shades of Grey” …

Have you read 50 Shades of Grey ? If so, I would love to hear your thoughts! Please let me know what you think via the “comments” section below. In the meantime, check out one of my favorite articles on the book from Feministing.com.

NEEDED: Feedback For A New Article

NEEDED: Feedback For A New Article

I’m writing an article about women, sex and body image. My opinion is that there are men out there with a variety of different tastes in the physical appearance of their dates/girlfriends/wives/sex partners. Men: What do you like physically in a woman that might surprise me or that might not fit the image of what women […]

My heart continues to break …

My heart continues to break …

“In secret we met— In silence I grieve That thy heart could forget, Thy spirit deceive. If I should meet thee After long years, How should I greet thee?— With silence and tears.” — When We Two Parted by Lord Byron  (last lines)

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