Posts in category Over 40

20 Things I Didn’t Know About L...

20 Things I Didn’t Know About Love, Sex and Dating Until I Hit 40 ~ by Elle Chase
When going to a swinger’s retreat, make certain your partner isn’t packing a tiny, leather, Borat-style “unikini“ to wear at the poolside fashion show. Being “in love” and being “in lust” are both very disparate and different things that deceptively, can seem like one and the same. Sex is messy. You [...]

SEX IS BACK from The Pleasure Chest &...

SEX IS BACK from The Pleasure Chest – Interviews 2013
SEX IS BACK is a sex-positive storytelling campaign gathering video testimonials from people of all genders, orientations and walks of life. With this project, we want to demonstrate the sheer diversity of human sexuality. We hope you’ll be as inspired, aroused, moved and entertained as we have been. In March 2013 at CatalystCon East, The Ple [...]

*EXCLUSIVE EXCERPT!* Kristina Wright...

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MEETING KRISTINA WRIGHT by Lady Cheeky I met Kristina Wright in Washington DC last year when we were both reading stories at Rachel Kramer-Bussel’s special one-night only, In the Flesh Reading Series of erotica evening at CatalystCon East. We met in a common way one meets others at a convention …  walking through the convention [...]

Sex Is Back! Lady Cheeky on Her Sexua...

Sex Is Back! Lady Cheeky on Her Sexual Awakening
The Pleasure Chest wants you to know that SEX IS BACK. Last March at CatalystCon East, The Pleasure Chest was set up in conference room with a digital camera, lights and a directive: to ask people about their sex lives for their SEX IS BACK project. I took part, as did a lot of way more fascinating, interesting people including some of the se [...]

My First Time at a Sex Shop: A Tribut...

My First Time at a Sex Shop: A Tribute of Sorts
The “Raquel” by Lady Cheeky I was about 25 in the mid 90’s when a good friend was shocked to find out that I didn’t own a sex toy … a vibrator to be exact. At the time, I was horrified to hear her mention my name in the same sentence as the word “vibrator.” For my next birthday, I opened up a flimsy cardboard box to find “Th [...]

Antonia Crane makes sure ‘After...

Antonia Crane makes sure ‘Afternoon Delight’ gets strip club right (LA Times)
By Cristy Lytal      For the LA Times -July 27, 2013, 8:00 a.m. – calendar@latimes.com Antonia Crane’s 20 years of experience as an exotic dancer and sex worker helped her become the expert consultant for the film “Afternoon Delight,” about a sex worker. (Genaro Molina / Los Angeles Times / July 28, 2013) – Shot [...]

Porn, Body Image and Buff Women

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By Alyssa Royse from her blog Just Alyssa on 6/11/11 I love bodies. I love both men’s and women’s bodies. I love my body. I have always loved Stoya’s body, hers especially. (And her amazingly pale skin, dark hair, pouty lips…. ) And, like many women, I look at all the bodies in the media, and I never see my own body. I often joke that I am bu [...]

Let’s Masturbate!: Experimentin...

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When I finally discovered my sensuality at age 40, I couldn’t stop masturbating. I touched myself morning, noon and night. In front of the TV, while I was on the phone, laying in bed next to my (soon to be ex) husband. I even did it while waiting in an interminable line in the drive-thru for In-n-Out Burger. I couldn’t be stopped. [...]

Lady Cheeky Swings at Bawdy Storytell...

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If you weren’t in Los Angeles for Bawdy Storytelling, No Holds Barred at the fabulous El Cid in April and missed my story … here it is should you want to take a listen by clicking the link below.  Lady Cheeky Cheeky Swings at Bawdy Storytelling LA! Now, go buy your tickets for the next L.A. Bawdy Storytelling show which I promis [...]

How Lady Cheeky Got Her Groove Back o...

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By Gram Ponante With apologies for resurrecting a decade-old reference that was the “50 Shades of…” of 1998, my friend Elle “Lady Cheeky” Chase delivers a poignant, practical, and positive interview on finding sexuality after 40 to Internet radio host Laurie Handlers. “Men are attracted to a sense of sexuality rather than a body,” concludes [...]

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