Posts in category Over 40

20 Things I Didn't Know About Lo...

20 Things I Didn't Know About Love, Sex and Dating Until I Hit 40 ~ by Elle Chase

When going to a swinger’s retreat, make certain your partner isn’t packing a tiny, leather, Borat-style “unikini“ to wear at the poolside fashion show. Being “in love” and being “in lust” are both very disparate and different things that deceptively, can seem like one and the same. Sex is messy. You’ll need a towel. When […]

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MEETING KRISTINA WRIGHT by Lady Cheeky I met Kristina Wright in Washington DC last year when we were both reading stories at Rachel Kramer-Bussel’s special one-night only, In the Flesh Reading Series of erotica evening at CatalystCon East. We met in a common way one meets others at a convention …  walking through the convention hall on the way to the elevator after a […]

Sex Is Back! Lady Cheeky on Her Sexua...

Sex Is Back! Lady Cheeky on Her Sexual Awakening

The Pleasure Chest wants you to know that SEX IS BACK. Last March at CatalystCon East, The Pleasure Chest was set up in conference room with a digital camera, lights and a directive: to ask people about their sex lives for their SEX IS BACK project. I took part, as did a lot of way […]

My First Time at a Sex Shop: A Tribut...

My First Time at a Sex Shop: A Tribute of Sorts

by Lady Cheeky I was about 25 in the mid 90’s when a good friend was shocked to find out that I didn’t own a sex toy … a vibrator to be exact. At the time, I was horrified to hear her mention my name in the same sentence as the word “vibrator.” For my […]

Antonia Crane makes sure 'Aftern...

Antonia Crane makes sure 'Afternoon Delight' gets strip club right (LA Times)

By Cristy Lytal      For the LA Times -July 27, 2013, 8:00 a.m. –   Not only does Antonia Crane know her way around a movie set, she also knows her way around a stripper pole. As someone with experience as an exotic dancer, Crane served as an expert consultant for Film Arcade’s “Afternoon Delight,” which […]

Let's Masturbate!: Experimenting...

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When I finally discovered my sensuality at age 40, I couldn’t stop masturbating. I touched myself morning, noon and night. In front of the TV, while I was on the phone, laying in bed next to my (soon to be ex) husband. I even did it while waiting in an interminable line in the drive-thru […]

Lady Cheeky Swings at Bawdy Storytell...


If you weren’t in Los Angeles for Bawdy Storytelling, No Holds Barred at the fabulous El Cid in April and missed my story … here it is should you want to take a listen by clicking the link below.  Lady Cheeky Cheeky Swings at Bawdy Storytelling LA! Now, go buy your tickets for the next L.A. […]

How Lady Cheeky Got Her Groove Back o...


By Gram Ponante With apologies for resurrecting a decade-old reference that was the “50 Shades of…” of 1998, my friend Elle “Lady Cheeky” Chase delivers a poignant, practical, and positive interview on finding sexuality after 40 to Internet radio host Laurie Handlers. “Men are attracted to a sense of sexuality rather than a body,” concludes […]



BY ANTONIA CRANE  Orginally appeared on   on  4/5/13 Tweet sex sites are a many splendored thing, opening doors to fluid identities that are both sexy and risk-free while erecting an emotional firewall to avoid real, personal rejection. My hackles go up whenever I think about technology replacing human touch, but when I met Lady Cheeky and heard her […]

Surviving Stretch Marks by Dr. Megan ...

Surviving Stretch Marks by Dr. Megan Stubbs, EdD, ACS

  I just recently returned from a vacation in Japan and had the wonderful opportunity to visit my first onsen. Onsen is the Japanese word for hot spring. Being a volcanic country, this provides the perfect environment for there to be many located around Japan. These public bathing facilities are great for the countries tourism, […]


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Elle Talks w/ Tristan Taormino About Big, Beautiful Sex

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