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20 Things I Didn’t Know About L...

20 Things I Didn’t Know About Love, Sex and Dating Until I Hit 40 ~ by Elle Chase

When going to a swinger’s retreat, make certain your partner isn’t packing a tiny, leather, Borat-style “unikini“ to wear at the poolside fashion show. Being “in love” and being “in lust” are both very disparate and different things that deceptively, can seem like one and the same. Sex is messy. You’ll need a towel. When […]

SEX IS BACK from The Pleasure Chest &...

SEX IS BACK from The Pleasure Chest – Interviews 2013

SEX IS BACK is a sex-positive storytelling campaign gathering video testimonials from people of all genders, orientations and walks of life. With this project, we want to demonstrate the sheer diversity of human sexuality. We hope you’ll be as inspired, aroused, moved and entertained as we have been. In March 2013 at CatalystCon East, The […]

COMMUNICATING YOUR SEXUAL DESIRES By ...

COMMUNICATING YOUR SEXUAL DESIRES By Lady Cheeky

George Bernard Shaw once said, “The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place”. Never has this been more apropos than in communicating our sexual desires to our partner. Let’s face it, telling your lover that you would like him to kiss you more gently or maybe even spank you […]

Listen to Lady Cheeky on Tristan Taor...

Listen to Lady Cheeky on Tristan Taormino’s ‘Sex Out Loud’

Listen to me on Tristan Taormino‘s SEX OUT LOUD RADIO  on VOICE AMERICA. Tristan talked to me about my recent workshop, Big Beautiful Sex at The Pleasure Chest Los Angeles, body positivity and the future of sex. CLICK HERE TO PLAY Also, on the show: Julie Stewart from Sportsheets, Dee Dennis from Catalyst Con, Lorraine Byerly from We-Vibe and Dean Elliott from Sliquid. This is Part 1 of […]

SEX AND THE PLUS-SIZED GAL by Elle Ch...

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  I happen to live in Los Angeles where being over a size 8 is a felony. This can be depressing when I am searching for a cute bathing suit or a stylish pair of jeans in a city that considers the ‘norm’ a size 2. At those times I like to remind myself that […]

50 Things Maggie Mayhem Has Been Mean...

50 Things Maggie Mayhem Has Been Meaning To Say About Sex

This list and it’s original title “50 Things I’ve Been Meaning To Say About Sex” originally appeared on www.MissMaggieMayhem.com on November 8, 2013.  If you don’t know who Maggie Mayhem is, you should – in my opinion she is one of the great minds of the sex-positive movement. I loved this list so much I wanted to […]

Press & Mentions

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Lick by Lick, Blow by Blow Oral Sex Kit by Lady Cheeky Lady Cheeky, Redhead Bedhead, Lucky Bloke Team Up For Safer Sex Kits Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2013 Outside the Box: Reflections Glass Wand with Lady Cheeky Big, Beautiful Sex with Lady Cheeky Our Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2013 – Kinkly.com Lady […]

Los Angeles: Lady Cheeky’s Free...

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Who says you have to be skinny to have the best sex of your life? Whether it’s media and advertising images of “perfect” bodies or snarky comments about our weight, fat-shaming is all around us, and it can get in the way of our sexual confidence and pleasure. In this workshop, which combines lecture and […]

My First Time at a Sex Shop: A Tribut...

My First Time at a Sex Shop: A Tribute of Sorts

by Lady Cheeky I was about 25 in the mid 90’s when a good friend was shocked to find out that I didn’t own a sex toy … a vibrator to be exact. At the time, I was horrified to hear her mention my name in the same sentence as the word “vibrator.” For my […]

Porn Sex vs Real Sex: The Differences...

Porn Sex vs Real Sex: The Differences Explained With Food

Originally published in BUST Posted by: Shelby L Thompson in Sexy on Jul 31, 2013 This is the real world, people, and whether or not you watch porn on a regular basis, you may have noticed that sexy time is not always as hard-core, pleasurable, or even as interesting as it is seems to be in porn. Thanks to […]

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