Posts in category Sex & Feminism

Fifty Shades Of Grey: Has it Changed ...

Fifty Shades of Grey has repeated its runaway US sales success in Britain.

No matter how you feel about ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ one must admit it has opened up our national conversation about sexuality. By now, you’d have to be living under a rock if you haven’t at least heard of the E.L. James, Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon, let alone not read the trilogy. Fifty Shades is Twilight for the “Soccer Mom” set […]

After Pornified – How Women Are...


After Pornified – How Women Are Transforming Pornography and Why It Really Matters A Book Review, by Lady Cheeky: Originally published on What do you think about when you hear the word “pornography”?  In the United States at least, that word usually conjures up images of brightly tanned, women on their knees and overly […]

Desert Showgirls: The Snickers Bar of...

Desert Showgirls: The Snickers Bar of Strip Clubs  by Antonia Crane (Author of "SPENT)

Originally Posted on  3/3/13 As usual, I drifted off to the True Crime channel at 3a.m. after stripping for 13 hours straight then L and I slept in a double bed in the Motel 6 off Highway 111 to save some dough. L sleeps exactly like me; I don’t even hear her breathe. She’s stiff and […]

Why Fifty Shades of Grey Has Changed ...


(originally published on By now, you’d have to be living under a rock if you haven’t at least heard of the E.L. James, Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon, let alone not read the trilogy. Fifty Shades is Twilight for the “Soccer Mom” set and just as poorly written, yet women can’t get enough of […]

Listen to Lady Cheeky on Tristan Taor...

Listen to Lady Cheeky on Tristan Taormino's 'Sex Out Loud'

Listen to me on Tristan Taormino‘s SEX OUT LOUD RADIO  on VOICE AMERICA. Tristan talked to me about my recent workshop, Big Beautiful Sex at The Pleasure Chest Los Angeles, body positivity and the future of sex. CLICK HERE TO PLAY Also, on the show: Julie Stewart from Sportsheets, Dee Dennis from Catalyst Con, Lorraine Byerly from We-Vibe and Dean Elliott from Sliquid. This is Part 1 of […]



    I happen to live in Los Angeles where being over a size 8 is a felony. This can be depressing when I am searching for a cute bathing suit or a stylish pair of jeans in a city that considers the ‘norm’ a size 2. At those times I like to remind myself […]

50 Things Maggie Mayhem Has Been Mean...

50 Things Maggie Mayhem Has Been Meaning To Say About Sex

This list and it’s original title “50 Things I’ve Been Meaning To Say About Sex” originally appeared on on November 8, 2013.  If you don’t know who Maggie Mayhem is, you should – in my opinion she is one of the great minds of the sex-positive movement. I loved this list so much I wanted to […]

Why Does LinkedIn Hate Sex Education?...


Originally published on 12/4/13 We have a real problem with our sex educators and writers getting booted off of sites like Facebook and LinkedIn, and having their funds frozen by processors like PayPal, because of these companies’ refusal to touch the erotic. Specifically, perceived status as a (current or former, as PayPal clarified to […]

Australia Doesn't Want You to Se...

Australia Doesn't Want You to See What a Vagina Looks Like (NSFW) by Elle Chase

By Elle Chase   This week, I found three year old article on online regarding Australian Classification Board’s (think the the Australian version of the MPAA except it includes all video games, films and published materials) censorship of the natural state of a woman’s vulva in magazines. In it, journalist Mia Freedman (who also wrote the pieces I’ve linked to below) describes it in […]

Antonia Crane makes sure 'Aftern...

Antonia Crane makes sure 'Afternoon Delight' gets strip club right (LA Times)

By Cristy Lytal      For the LA Times -July 27, 2013, 8:00 a.m. –   Not only does Antonia Crane know her way around a movie set, she also knows her way around a stripper pole. As someone with experience as an exotic dancer, Crane served as an expert consultant for Film Arcade’s “Afternoon Delight,” which […]


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Elle Talks w/ Tristan Taormino About Big, Beautiful Sex

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