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My Secret Luxury: The Lady Cheeky Luxury Sex Toy Recommendations

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logoLadyCheeky_pluralI was recently asked by the folks at My Secret Luxury to list a few of my favorite sex toys. I came up with this list and I thought I’d share. But … be sure to check out the other sexperts picks! The MamaSutra, Emerald, Shanna Katz, Cooper Beckett, The Redhead Bedhead, Rori of Between My Sheets and Drs. Steve & Vera Bodansky. I’m thrilled to be in such great company!

The Lady Cheeky recommends…

Jimmyjane FORM 2 Vibrator - I like my vibrator to have at least one stroooonnng setting and this delivers. I’ve traveled all over the country with mine and because it’s made impeccably, the FORM 2 takes a lick’ and keeps on ticking’!

We-Vibe 3 Vibrator - Many toys in one. Use it by yourself alone or with a dildo, use with your partner. The size is perfect for vaginal, g-spot, clitoral or anal stimulation. We-Vibe 3 has a remote AND is 40% stronger than the pervious versions.

Aneros Peridise Anal Set - Fantastic shape for men and women alike who enjoy anal play.

Aneros Evi Kegel Exerciser - I’ve said it before, “EVI is like a barbell for your lady bits.” The EVI is absolutely the BEST kegel exercisers on the market. I’ve actually drive with it in. It’s THAT comfortable.

Yes Butter Lubricant - I love this product because it’s all natural, lasts forever and has multiple uses. It’s my go to lube for sex, dry skin repair, lip balm and to tame flyaway hairs. How many things can you say that about?!?!

Tantus Purr Vibe Dildo - In my opinion, Tantus makes the best dildos around. Not only arew the shapes delicious, their commitment to manufacturing a pristine and safe producy makes me feel confiden about what I’m playing with.

Jimmyjane HELLO TOUCH Vibrator - Um. Wow. Because the vibration is attached to fingers, it makes “vibrator” masturbation more intimate and sensual. I simply love it.

Jimmyjane Iconic Rabbit Vibrator - It’s a good size, great strength and…is made well. I’ve had mine for 5 years and it still looks new and works as well as it did when I bought it. Other brands either weren’t strong enough…or had too many bells and whistles and most often weren’t made as well.

Check out MY SECRET LUXURY at http://www.MySecretLuxury.com

 

SEX TOY REVIEW: JimmyJane’s Iconic Rabbit (JimmyJane Part 1)

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By Lady Cheeky

JimmyJane pleasure products are sleek, well-made and handsome, but they’re also on the higher price range price. Are they worth it? I tried out five of them to help you decide. This is the first in a five-part series:

JimmyJane’s Iconic Rabbit: The Usual Suspects Collection: This was the first JimmyJane product I owned and the first rabbit I tried. Wandering the aisles of The Pleasure Chest in West Hollywood, CA, I found myself awash in a sea of garish rabbit and rabbit-like devices not knowing which to choose. The great thing about The Pleasure Chest is that all their sales associates are educators as well and very well-versed in all of their products. After I made a glib comment about the flashy designs of most of the choices, the salesperson steered me to JimmyJane’s Iconic Rabbit.

Initially attracted to it’s no-nonsense design devoid of glitter, pearls and bright color that the sex toy industry assumes women like, I was pleasantly pleased with the salesperson’s review and quickly ran home to try it out. Let’s just say I was MORE than thrilled with it’s performance. With the Iconic Rabbit angled just right I was able to have my FIRST simultaneous g-spot/clitoral orgasm. For that feat alone it should receive an award.

Made of durable, phalate-free and body-safe materials (like all of their toys you can feel confident exposing your most intimate areas to this vibe. The Iconic Rabbit has a rotating shaft, inner “pearls” and a divine set of bunny ears that hit me at just the right “spot.” It’s dual slide, individual speed controls let you play with different speeds for different areas and test and choose the intensity that’s right for you.  Contrary to other Rabbit’s I’ve tried since, I found JimmyJane’s Iconic Rabbit to be versatile enough for when I want powerful stimulation and for when I am in the mood for a lighter touch. In addition, it’s aesthetically pleasing and goes well with my white and grey bedroom … it’s the little things that make a difference, right?

By myself or in the hand of a partner, this Rabbit performs and, after 5 years of continuous use, has held up just as well as the day I bought it … well worth the price. I recommend this to women who are just about to buy their first sex toy and to couples who want to start experimenting with toys. One of the best ways to build intimacy with a partner (and see how they like to be pleasured) is to watch each other masturbate. The Iconic Rabbitis the perfect choice for this setting as it’s size and appearance are non-threatening to men and to women who aren’t used to playing with a toy in bed.

The drawbacks? Unlike a lot of JimmyJane products the Iconic Rabbit is not waterproof so I recommend using a toy cleaning wipe or spray (I like pjur med clean intimacy soft cleansing fleece). Room for improvement? Sure, I’d like to see a girthier version in the future for a little variety and a waterproof one would open up more possibilities … but that’s just me. Regardless, I’ll still be hitting up Mr. Iconic Rabbit for late night trysts.

  • Price $100
  • Body-Safe and Phthalate-Free – Hygienic, latex-free elastomer
  • Internal and External Use – Stimulate the clitoris, labia and/or G-spot
  • Dual Motion – Individually controlled shaft and tickler
  • Soft Touch – Thick, supple elastomer
  • Dimensions – 9.5″ x 3.0″ at widest point
  • Batteries Included – 3 x AA
  • One Year Limited Warranty 

LINKS:    JimmyJane’s The Usual Suspects Iconic Rabbit   &   The Pleasure Chest

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Bawdy Storytelling LA – Tomorrow, March 27th at El Cid in Silverlake!

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Bawdy Storytelling presents

‘The Unlikeliest Places’

Featuring:

- Sex Educator & Porn Icon Nina Hartley
- Bravo’s Miss Advised & Sex with Emily’s Emily Morse
- Fleshbot‘s Senior Erotic Consultant & the brains behind GramPonante.com, Gram Ponante
- Music by The Turgidaires
- And YOU! This is part curated Bawdy Storytelling, part BawdySlam: share your 5 minute story for prizes & braggin’ rights

Giveaways from Vixen Creations (“The Cadillac of Cock”)
BawdySlam Grand Prize Package from Screaming O Adult Novelties (Yes, the same prizes found in the gift bags at the Oscars!)

Ever have that moment where you wake up in a small county jail without your shoelaces, belt, or dignity? Yeah, me neither. How about some random bed where you try to remember where your pants are, where the handcuff key is, and why your ass hurts? Me neither. But have you ever wanted to hear stories from people who have, though? Yeah, me too!

This month, Bawdy Storytelling presents ‘The Unlikeliest Places’ — a firm and probing exploration into sexploration … LA style. From hopping a fence to getting drunk in a hospital to good ol’ stickin’ it where it don’t normally fit, come hear stories about boldly going where most men and women just shouldn’t, couldn’t, and in some states dictated by law, MUST NOT go.

This show will be a mix of renowned sex-positive celebrities for the curated portion of our show, followed by BawdySlam (where people just like you take to the Bawdy stage and share personal and intimate adventures for prizes and the title of Dirtiest Storyteller in LA). Bawdy’s award-winning take on sex and storytelling has made it not only a “don’t miss” event in the cities we’ve already conquered, but it serves as a gathering of the bold, the beautiful, and (if our fan mail is to be believed) an awesome first date destination. Each themed evening of true dirty stories features tales of carnal wins and epic fails with no scripts, no nets, and no holds barred. You may even go home with a few new tricks for your boudoir arsenal!

As the great American poet Iggy Pop once said, “You know I’ve had it in the ear before…” Come to the gorgeous El Cid to enjoy tapas, drinks (my fave are the drinks made with this incredible homemade jam!), flirting and stories that would make little Jimmy Osterberg blush!

Taking place at the historic El Cid, a treasured Silver Lake Landmark. It’s under new management, and has a delicious new menu under the direction of renowned chef Olivia Hernandez. Bawdy’s first LA show at El Cid sold out fast so get your tickets NOW – we want you there!

DOORS AT 7:30 – SHOW AT 8:30 PM

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4212 SUNSET BLVD LA 90029

(323) 668-0318

TICKETS $12 IN ADVANCE AT:

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ONLINE TICKET SALES END AT 5:30 DAY OF SHOW & WILL BE $15 (CASH) AT THE DOOR (SPACE PERMITTING).

 

Performer Bios:

imagesNina Hartley (@Ninaland) is a pioneering feminist sex worker, using her body in the service of promoting a sexually sane and literate society. She is thrilled to see a new generation of sex-positive performer/activists take its space and spread the good news about sex. For the past thirty years her rock-solid commitment to the importance of sexual autonomy has fueled Nina Hartley’s career in adult entertainment. As a performer, director, writer, educator, public speaker, and feminist thinker for all, no matter their orientation, she’s traveled the world to deliver her message. She believes that sexual freedom is a fundamental human right and welcomes the new social media opportunities for spreading her message of knowledge and empowerment to the widest number of people. She’s the author of, “Nina Hartley’s Guide to Total Sex,” from Avery Press. Putting to use her B.S. degree in nursing, she and her husband, I.S. Levine, have produced the million-selling sex-ed video series collectively known as “The Nina Hartley Guides,” from Adam & Eve, currently in its 38th episode. Still active in front of the camera, she and her husband live in Los Angeles.

images-1Emily Morse (@SexWithEmily) is a sex & relationship expert, author, talk show host & Bravo TV star. She is the host of Sex With Emily, a radio show and podcast about sex, relationships and everything in between. Listen to the show on demand at www.SexWithEmily.com , through iTunes on Friday nights on Sirius/XM Satellite radio.

 

dandyGram Ponante (@gramponante) has been America’s Beloved Porn Journalist for most of this century, providing much-needed insight on the adult industry in the San Fernando Valley—the region’s greatest natural resource—at www.GramPonante.com, Fleshbot, Hustler, and dozens of classy magazines for Gentlemen and discerning Ladies. His “A Porn Valley Odyssey: Making The Facts of Life XXX” is a betterselling Amazon eBook.

WATCH a sample of Bawdy Storytelling HERE

This week’s LA WEEKLY loves BAWDY!

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Aneros’ Evi Garnering Praise: Sex Educators Loving Design, Performance

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evi_4x6postcard-1Originally appeared in AVN Business Sep 24th, 2012 

LONG BEACH, Calif.—Evi, the revolutionary hands-free Kegel exerciser by health-conscious manufacturer Aneros, made its debut before an audience of sex experts, health advocates and discerning consumers at the CatalystCon conference in Long Beach, Calif., Sept. 14-16.

Evi was presented to CatalystCon attendees by Ducky Dolittle, a renowned sexpert of more than 20 years. Doolittle’s seminar, “Kegels and the Art of Orgasm,” offered conference attendees a guided tour of the female anatomy and the benefits of strengthening PC muscles, which control urine flow and contract during orgasm. A self-proclaimed “Kegel monster,” Doolittle offered her full endorsement of Evi, noting her personal mind-blowing experience with Aneros’ latest revolutionary design and subsequent partnership with the brand after personally contacting Aneros.

“It’s totally unique,” Doolittle said in her presentation of Evi. “Aneros understands the anatomy unlike any other company.”

CatalystCon organizer Dee Dennis stated, “I was thrilled Aneros chose CatalystCon to debut Evi. CatalystCon is about creating change, and I feel we created something groundbreaking by launching a product not at the traditional industry trade show, but instead with actual sex education, going right to those who will use Evi. The message Aneros sent by debuting Evi at CatalystCon was their first concern is not bottom line or sales, but the sexual health and well being of those who will be using Evi.”

The hands-free device is anatomically designed to fit all women and is made of a velvety smooth medical-grade silicone material guaranteeing users sensual stimulation while strengthening PC muscles. With correct insertion, Evi alternately stimulates the G-spot and clitoris with a simple Kegel exercise, essentially providing pleasurable incentives for Kegel fitness.

Firm enough to pivot and hold its shape while providing comfort, Evi delivers an inner fullness by adapting to the anatomical contours of a woman’s vagina. Contracting and relaxing pelvic floor muscles causes Evi to caress the anterior wall of the vagina known as the G-spot, while externally stimulating the clit. The pace and pressure can be controlled by rocking and twirling the hips, thus offering women versatile stimulation.

Early reviews of Evi report strengthened PC muscles and intense orgasms marked by involuntary vaginal contractions, to which Evi responds by elongating the experience and often leading to female ejaculation. For newbies, Evi by Aneros offers a valuable tool for gauging PC muscle strength, while encouraging fitness with rewarding results during each use.

Sex Blogger and sex-positive activist Lady Cheeky said, “I was interested in Evi primarily for its Kegel focus. I found Evi provided me with a comfortable, and dare I say, enjoyable workout for my pelvic floor muscles. Once inserted, my Kegels were immediately engaged and intuitively clasped onto Evi, making the Kegel exercise itself thought-free. Extremely comfortable, I could walk, sit, and drive, all the while knowing Evi was secure and doing its job. Evi is like a barbell for your lady bits!”

“We attend a lot of conferences and have interacted with a lot of sponsors, and we’ve never been as impressed as we were with Aneros at CatalystCon,” stated EvilSlutopia.com co-founders and Executive Editors Lilith and Jezebel. “The fact they chose CatalystCon for the Evi launch says a lot about them as a company and their dedication to sex positivity and sex education …We’ve never seen any sponsor treat the conference organizer so well or be so genuinely nice, helpful, and professional and just overall fucking awesome to everyone.”

At the conclusion of Doolittle’s presentation of Evi at CatalystCon, a raffle sent several enthusiastic winners home with an Evi of their own—however, discarded packaging in the women’s bathroom suggested some women couldn’t wait to take Evi for a spin.

The demand for Evi also is evident on its dedicated Facebook page at Facebook.com/eviByAneros.

For more information on Evi by Aneros, or to enter a raffle to win an Evi, visit Aneros.com/evi/.

 

Choosing the Best G-Spot Vibrator

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By Trina Denzel

The concept seems so simple: a straight device with 45 degree tilted tip. Supposedly the key to intense internal orgasmic power, then why are some women feeling less than pleased with their vibrator?

The truth is some models are purely for looks. Made to look stylish on the shelf to incite the customer to make a  purchase. Others have the tilted tip sort of like an afterthought, considered a “value added feature” to a standard vibrator.

This does not mean they won’t feel good however, but if your intended purpose is to get the best g-spot stimulation, there’s a few things you should be looking for before you hit the checkout.  If you need a refresher on where the g-spot is, you can check out this video by Dr. Oz from Oprah.com

6 Features Found on the Best G-Spot Vibrator:

 1.  A Firm Touch

A firm build should be your only choice with plastic being the best. Any soft material will bend or squish, reducing the pressure placed on the g-spot. If comfort is a concern, let it be known you may feel a poke as you slide it inwards but once in place, it’s smooth sailing to pleasuretown!

 2.   A Helping Handle

When the vibrator is inside of you, it’s easy to have it miss your point, especially if you’re thrusting or moving around. Moving a few centimeters to the side can mean the difference between a massively wonderful orgasm and an OK one. If the vibe has a finger loop at the base or the like near the bottom to help you distinguish which way it’s facing, you’ll never stray from the intended spot.

 3.   Vibration at the Tip

Luckily, most vibrators of this style have motor placement at the top – but not all. Read the product description or ask the sales associate where the motor is located. A motor right in the curved tip is going to radiate the strongest sensation directly into your body.

 4.   Thinner is a Winner

There is a multitude of widths for sale but for precise g-spot massage, you’ll want to choose one with a thinner shaft. The reason is, a thicker shaft feels good as the labia, but it competes with the feeling of g-spot massage. Save the thicker vibrator for your realistic model or even dildo selection. A thin shaft is typically 1 1/2 inches wide or less.

 5.   Must Have Power

This tip can possibly conflict with tip number 4. Consequently, a thinner shaft means smaller structure which means less space for batteries which means less power. It’s not to say vibes using a single battery are not good, they will still give you a great massage but a stronger level of vibration really takes it up a big step. Look for a vibrator that uses at least 2 AA batteries or 3 AAA’s.

6.   Longer is not better

A tip your man would love to hear, just kidding! There are many excellent vibes on the market that are short. Some women don’t even look twice at these models thinking they won’t reach, but truth is the g-spot is only 2 – 3 inches up, extra length will not carry any orgasmic benefit.

These guidelines can help you choose the g-spot vibrator that will offer the strongest orgasm potential. Even though several styles exist only a select handful will provide all the features listed above offering a woman the chance to enjoy a secret orgasm that radiates internally, a big difference from a clitoral orgasm. And a g-spot vibrator is often very economical as well allowing better pleasure at an affordable price.

Trina Denzel is a happily married sex-positive author who loves to promote the power of a healthy sex life with a humorous twist. She writes the blog and product descriptions on The Adult Toy Shop and regularly contributes articles to women’s interest blogs with the goal of enhancing personal playtime for women and sharing closer intimacy. Check her out on Twitter: @FriskyTweets