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Fifty Shades Of Grey: Has it Changed ...

Fifty Shades of Grey has repeated its runaway US sales success in Britain.

No matter how you feel about ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ one must admit it has opened up our national conversation about sexuality. By now, you’d have to be living under a rock if you haven’t at least heard of the E.L. James, Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon, let alone not read the trilogy. Fifty Shades is Twilight for the “Soccer Mom” set […]

Book Brevity: “Master of O̶...

Book Brevity: “Master of O” by Ernest Greene

Book Brevity: Book Reviews in 300 Words or Less    Ernest Greene’s “Master of O” – I read a lot of erotica. A lot. I’m a bit of a snob when it comes to the crafting of a delicious sexy story and therefore, I’m very hard to please. In addition, BDSM is admittedly not my […]

Listen to Lady Cheeky on Tristan Taor...

Listen to Lady Cheeky on Tristan Taormino’s ‘Sex Out Loud’

Listen to me on Tristan Taormino‘s SEX OUT LOUD RADIO  on VOICE AMERICA. Tristan talked to me about my recent workshop, Big Beautiful Sex at The Pleasure Chest Los Angeles, body positivity and the future of sex. CLICK HERE TO PLAY Also, on the show: Julie Stewart from Sportsheets, Dee Dennis from Catalyst Con, Lorraine Byerly from We-Vibe and Dean Elliott from Sliquid. This is Part 1 of […]

SEX AND THE PLUS-SIZED GAL by Elle Ch...

SEX AND THE PLUS-SIZED GAL by Elle Chase

    I happen to live in Los Angeles where being over a size 8 is a felony. This can be depressing when I am searching for a cute bathing suit or a stylish pair of jeans in a city that considers the ‘norm’ a size 2. At those times I like to remind myself […]

50 Things Maggie Mayhem Has Been Mean...

50 Things Maggie Mayhem Has Been Meaning To Say About Sex

This list and it’s original title “50 Things I’ve Been Meaning To Say About Sex” originally appeared on www.MissMaggieMayhem.com on November 8, 2013.  If you don’t know who Maggie Mayhem is, you should – in my opinion she is one of the great minds of the sex-positive movement. I loved this list so much I wanted to […]

Where Sex Meets “Isms”: F...

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This panel was presented at the 2013 Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit in DC by emotional freedom coach Cathy Vartuli  from, 2013 EXXXOTICA BBW Female Performer of the Year, Kelly Shibari from iconic transgender filmmaker Buck Angel, sensuality guru Elle “Lady Cheeky” Chase from http://www.SmutForSmarties.com, and outspoken sex blogger N’Jaila Rhee from http://www.BlasianBytch.com. Each person’s sexual self-expression is unique, and requires […]

Sex Is Back! Lady Cheeky on Her Sexua...

Sex Is Back! Lady Cheeky on Her Sexual Awakening

The Pleasure Chest wants you to know that SEX IS BACK. Last March at CatalystCon East, The Pleasure Chest was set up in conference room with a digital camera, lights and a directive: to ask people about their sex lives for their SEX IS BACK project. I took part, as did a lot of way […]

Secrets and Shadows by Spanking Thea...

Secrets and Shadows  by Spanking Theatre

What would be your reaction if you watched a mainstream movie with friends or family that contained a scene like this? Ostentatious delight or embarrassed chuckles? Come to think of it, how many people know of your most cherished fantasies? Have you ever felt awkward about keeping them secret? Here’s a passage that might get […]

Op Ed: The Joy of Sexing a Gentleman

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By Lady Cheeky – Originally published on this site 9/27/2011 Dating in Los Angeles. I’m starting to realize it is the rare man who is actually a “gentleman.” Yes, I consider myself a feminist and a strong woman. But, I am also … a “lady.” I believe you can be both at the same time. […]

SPEAKER SPOTLIGHT: Elle Chase (Lady C...

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  How do you see yourself as a catalyst for change? By speaking out, as truthfully as I can about my own experience uncovering, indulging and ultimately integrating my sensuality. I hope I can encourage other women to explore, embark on or continue that journey, especially women over 40 and women with body image concerns. […]

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