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Fifty Shades Of Grey: Has it Changed ...

Fifty Shades of Grey has repeated its runaway US sales success in Britain.
No matter how you feel about ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ one must admit it has opened up our national conversation about sexuality. By now, you’d have to be living under a rock if you haven’t at least heard of the E.L. James, Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon, let alone not read the trilogy. Fifty Shades is Twilight for the “Soccer Mom” [...]

LIVING ON A FAULT LINE: SEXUAL SHAME ...

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I’ve never written a blog before, but recent media news about the sexual allegations against Jian Ghomeshi have prompted me to think more deeply aboutideas that this project, this film, have caused me to explore in the last few years. There have been some fantastic articles around the Jian Ghomeshi case and they are easy to access, so [...]

Why Fifty Shades of Grey Has Changed ...

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(originally published on www.EvolvedWorld.com) By now, you’d have to be living under a rock if you haven’t at least heard of the E.L. James, Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon, let alone not read the trilogy. Fifty Shades is Twilight for the “Soccer Mom” set and just as poorly written, yet women can’t get enough of it … in fact, no one can [...]

How Your Thoughts Look On Your Body (...

How Your Thoughts Look On Your Body (nsfw) by Elle Chase
PHOTO CREDIT: GRACIE HAGEN Look at this woman’s body. Look at her in terms of the first picture being one of self-appreciation and confidence.   Then look at the second one being of self-deprecation. Which one do you relate to?   Chicago photographer Gracie Hagan likes to play with with themes of emotion and perception in her w [...]

SEX AND THE PLUS-SIZED GAL by Elle Ch...

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  I happen to live in Los Angeles where being over a size 8 is a felony. This can be depressing when I am searching for a cute bathing suit or a stylish pair of jeans in a city that considers the ‘norm’ a size 2. At those times I like to remind myself that the average dress size for women across America and the UK is a size 14 and that a [...]

Big, Beautiful Sex on The Pleasure Ch...

Big, Beautiful Sex on The Pleasure Chest Blog!
We were delighted to have sex educator Lady Cheeky at our Los Angeles store last night, teaching her body positive workshop Big Beautiful Sex. She shared her insights about overcoming fat-shaming, building sexual confidence, and finding the toys and positions that work best for your body. The workshop was such a big hit that we want to share [...]

Why Does LinkedIn Hate Sex Education?...

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Originally published on 12/4/13  sabrinamorgan.tumblr.com We have a real problem with our sex educators and writers getting booted off of sites like Facebook and LinkedIn, and having their funds frozen by processors like PayPal, because of these companies’ refusal to touch the erotic. Specifically, perceived status as a (current or former, as [...]

Los Angeles: Lady Cheeky’s Free...

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Who says you have to be skinny to have the best sex of your life? Whether it’s media and advertising images of “perfect” bodies or snarky comments about our weight, fat-shaming is all around us, and it can get in the way of our sexual confidence and pleasure. In this workshop, which combines lecture and discussion, body-positive educator Lad [...]

Burlesque Dancer, Amanda Trusty Makes...

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This made me cheer a little in my mouth. Burlesque Dancer, Amanda Trusty, depicts her body image journey through her art and makes us all a little bit better for it. On November 22, 2013, Amanda will be interviewed on The Today Show in New York City at 8am EST. Her viral burlesque video to Katy Perry’s Roar has been featured on Huffingt [...]

Smaller Package, Better Lover?

Smaller Package, Better Lover?
by Melissa White       (originally posted in Huffington Post Women on 09/26/2013 5:55 pm) Condom Expert, CEO & Founder of Lucky Bloke (Check out my quote in this article!) It truly is all about the size of the package — but not in the way that you might think. It’s time to take a stand: regarding penis size, and what it means [...]

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