Posts in category Women & Sex

Elle Chase Inks Quarto Publishing Dea...


LOS ANGELES – Nov. 3, 2015 Upcoming sex position & body image book for curvy women is first of its kind Certified sex educator and sex and body image thought-leader Elle Chase has signed with leading illustrated book publisher Quarto Publishing Group to pen the first-ever instructional sex-ed book for plus-size women. An authority and […]

GLAMOUR MAGAZINE: Sex and Body Image ...


October, 28, 2015 GLAMOUR EDITOR’S NOTE: Welcome to our brand-new Smitten series What an Expert Says. Veteran author, lecturer, and sex educator Tristan Taormino will be interviewing fellow experts in the sex, dating, and relationships field to discuss important issues that many of us struggle with. For our first topic, Taormino talks to Elle Chase, […]

GUEST POST: Lifestyle Blogger Sarah S...

GUEST POST: Lifestyle Blogger Sarah Sapora confronts the intersection of sex and body image

A Body of Confidence (or How I Stopped Thinking and Learned to Enjoy the Intimate and Unfamiliar)style Blogger Sarah Sapora confronts the intersection of By Sara Sapora, Confidence is not concrete. It is fluid and amoeba-like. Aqueous and ever changing. And just when you think you’re grasping it in your hands, it can trickle through […]

Fifty Shades Of Grey: Has it Changed ...

Fifty Shades of Grey has repeated its runaway US sales success in Britain.

No matter how you feel about ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ one must admit it has opened up our national conversation about sexuality. By now, you’d have to be living under a rock if you haven’t at least heard of the E.L. James, Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon, let alone not read the trilogy. Fifty Shades is Twilight for the “Soccer Mom” set […]



I’ve never written a blog before, but recent media news about the sexual allegations against Jian Ghomeshi have prompted me to think more deeply aboutideas that this project, this film, have caused me to explore in the last few years. There have been some fantastic articles around the Jian Ghomeshi case and they are easy to access, so I don’t need to cover that ground again. Personally, I think the most relatable concepts in the whole situation are  secrets, shame & tolerance. Understanding what we, particularly as women, are willing to bear in our sexual relationships and encounters. I know very few, if any, […]

20 Things I Didn't Know About Lo...

20 Things I Didn't Know About Love, Sex and Dating Until I Hit 40 ~ by Elle Chase

When going to a swinger’s retreat, make certain your partner isn’t packing a tiny, leather, Borat-style “unikini“ to wear at the poolside fashion show. Being “in love” and being “in lust” are both very disparate and different things that deceptively, can seem like one and the same. Sex is messy. You’ll need a towel. When […]

Why Fifty Shades of Grey Has Changed ...


(originally published on By now, you’d have to be living under a rock if you haven’t at least heard of the E.L. James, Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon, let alone not read the trilogy. Fifty Shades is Twilight for the “Soccer Mom” set and just as poorly written, yet women can’t get enough of […]

Seduction at Any Size, by Kitty Cava...


One of the most undeniable virtues of a true Sacred Seductress is the way she loves her flesh. A Seductress loves every inch of her self: smooth skin, dimpled skin, parts that stick out, parts that just don’t. It is all as beautiful as a sunrise to her. Because of the conviction in her self-love, the judgments […]

Review: The AMORINO from Fun Factory

Review: The AMORINO from Fun Factory

or “How I Became a German Baroness” Way back in September of last year, Fun Factory asked if they could send me one of their new vibes to review and I happily agreed. When it arrived it wasn’t in a box with instructions and it had a weird yellow, silicone band wrapped between the tip and […]

Listen to Lady Cheeky on Tristan Taor...

Listen to Lady Cheeky on Tristan Taormino's 'Sex Out Loud'

Listen to me on Tristan Taormino‘s SEX OUT LOUD RADIO  on VOICE AMERICA. Tristan talked to me about my recent workshop, Big Beautiful Sex at The Pleasure Chest Los Angeles, body positivity and the future of sex. CLICK HERE TO PLAY Also, on the show: Julie Stewart from Sportsheets, Dee Dennis from Catalyst Con, Lorraine Byerly from We-Vibe and Dean Elliott from Sliquid. This is Part 1 of […]


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Elle Talks w/ Tristan Taormino About Big, Beautiful Sex

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