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Dick Pics: Janet Looks at 89 of Them...

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By Elle Chase Dick Pics: Janet Looks at  89 of Them on ‘Between the Sheets with Lora Somoza‘ Last month I was minding my own business when the incomparable Lora Somoza asked me to be on her 9/15/14 radio show, ‘Between the Sheets with Lora Somoza.’ Also on the show that day, was the beautiful and […]

Review: Lelo ORA, Oral Sex Simulator

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By Elle Chase  |  9/18/14 What Is This “ORA” That You Speak Of?: Earlier this year, Lelo stepped into challenging territory by producing and marketing one of the most demanding of all orgasm invokers … the oral sex simulator. I couldn’t wait to try this, I mean oral sex is my favorite thing ever, to […]

Robin Williams Reveals His Killer

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by Elle Chase Robin Williams cut his wrists, and then hung himself to death with a belt yesterday morning. He meant business. This wasn’t impulsive. This wasn’t the kind of suicide where you’re sure that the desire to die would have been aborted if he could have just talked to someone or if he had […]

It's National Orgasm Day: Take C...

It's National Orgasm Day: Take Charge of Your Own Orgasm!

By Elle Chase In this fast food culture, women’s sexual release is often relegated to the back of the bus.  Nowhere is this more evident than in the female orgasm and how it’s attained. As a woman who went on a sexual discovery journey I learned a few things on the way about orgasms in general and […]

After Pornified – How Women Are...

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After Pornified – How Women Are Transforming Pornography and Why It Really Matters A Book Review, by Lady Cheeky: Originally published on EvolvedWorld.com What do you think about when you hear the word “pornography”?  In the United States at least, that word usually conjures up images of brightly tanned, women on their knees and overly […]

Book Brevity: "Master of O"...

Book Brevity: "Master of O" by Ernest Greene

Book Brevity: Book Reviews in 300 Words or Less    Ernest Greene’s “Master of O” – I read a lot of erotica. A lot. I’m a bit of a snob when it comes to the crafting of a delicious sexy story and therefore, I’m very hard to please. In addition, BDSM is admittedly not my […]

5 Reasons Online Dating is Practicall...

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By JoEllen Notte, June 2, 2014    5 Reasons Online Dating is Made for Introverts  Online dating gets a bad rap. Folks like to blame it for killing everything from monogamy and traditional dating to love and marriage. Folks seem to think there’s too much virtual communicating and not enough “real” connecting; that there’s decreased […]

Desert Showgirls: The Snickers Bar of...

Desert Showgirls: The Snickers Bar of Strip Clubs  by Antonia Crane (Author of "SPENT)

Originally Posted on www.AntoniaCrane.com  3/3/13 As usual, I drifted off to the True Crime channel at 3a.m. after stripping for 13 hours straight then L and I slept in a double bed in the Motel 6 off Highway 111 to save some dough. L sleeps exactly like me; I don’t even hear her breathe. She’s stiff and […]

20 Things I Didn't Know About Lo...

20 Things I Didn't Know About Love, Sex and Dating Until I Hit 40 ~ by Elle Chase

When going to a swinger’s retreat, make certain your partner isn’t packing a tiny, leather, Borat-style “unikini“ to wear at the poolside fashion show. Being “in love” and being “in lust” are both very disparate and different things that deceptively, can seem like one and the same. Sex is messy. You’ll need a towel. When […]

Review/Exclusive Excerpt: "Kissi...

Review/Exclusive Excerpt: "Kissing: A Field Guide" by Violet Blue

Violet Blue is responsible for my healthy vulva. It’s true. Years ago, when reading her fantastic site www.TinyNibbles.com, I came across an article she wrote on what women taste like. In it, she described how regular soap changes the pH in the vulva and can cause destruction of lactobacillus, the healthy bacteria your vulva needs to stay […]

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