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After Pornified – How Women Are...

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After Pornified – How Women Are Transforming Pornography and Why It Really Matters A Book Review, by Lady Cheeky: Originally published on EvolvedWorld.com What do you think about when you hear the word “pornography”?  In the United States at least, that word usually conjures up images of brightly tanned, women on their knees and overly [...]

Book Brevity: “Master of O̶...

Book Brevity: “Master of O” by Ernest Greene
Book Brevity: Book Reviews in 300 Words or Less    Ernest Greene’s “Master of O” - I read a lot of erotica. A lot. I’m a bit of a snob when it comes to the crafting of a delicious sexy story and therefore, I’m very hard to please. In addition, BDSM is admittedly not my oeuvre, and I am usually looking at the [...]

5 Reasons Online Dating is Practicall...

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By JoEllen Notte, June 2, 2014    5 Reasons Online Dating is Made for Introverts  Online dating gets a bad rap. Folks like to blame it for killing everything from monogamy and traditional dating to love and marriage. Folks seem to think there’s too much virtual communicating and not enough “real” connecting; that there’s decreased communicati [...]

Desert Showgirls: The Snickers Bar of...

Desert Showgirls: The Snickers Bar of Strip Clubs  by Antonia Crane (Author of “SPENT)
Originally Posted on www.AntoniaCrane.com  3/3/13 As usual, I drifted off to the True Crime channel at 3a.m. after stripping for 13 hours straight then L and I slept in a double bed in the Motel 6 off Highway 111 to save some dough. L sleeps exactly like me; I don’t even hear her breathe. She’s stiff and still and silent. We are like a coupl [...]

20 Things I Didn’t Know About L...

20 Things I Didn’t Know About Love, Sex and Dating Until I Hit 40 ~ by Elle Chase
When going to a swinger’s retreat, make certain your partner isn’t packing a tiny, leather, Borat-style “unikini“ to wear at the poolside fashion show. Being “in love” and being “in lust” are both very disparate and different things that deceptively, can seem like one and the same. Sex is messy. You [...]

Review/Exclusive Excerpt: “Kiss...

Review/Exclusive Excerpt: “Kissing: A Field Guide” by Violet Blue
Violet Blue is responsible for my healthy vulva. It’s true. Years ago, when reading her fantastic site www.TinyNibbles.com, I came across an article she wrote on what women taste like. In it, she described how regular soap changes the pH in the vulva and can cause destruction of lactobacillus, the healthy bacteria your vulva needs to st [...]

Lady Cheeky jumps “In Bed with ...

Lady Cheeky jumps “In Bed with jessica drake” on Playboy Radio – 3/18/14
I’ve been a huge fan of sex educator, award-winning adult film actress and director, jessica drake ever since we briefly met at CatalystCon East last year. jessica was there to speak about Slut Shaming in Sex Positive Communities and Measure B (Check out what jessica spoke about at this year’s CatalystCon) and I was there to spea [...]

Why Fifty Shades of Grey Has Changed ...

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(originally published on www.EvolvedWorld.com) By now, you’d have to be living under a rock if you haven’t at least heard of the E.L. James, Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon, let alone not read the trilogy. Fifty Shades is Twilight for the “Soccer Mom” set and just as poorly written, yet women can’t get enough of it … in fact, no one can [...]

Immortalized by SheVibe for Their Cat...

Immortalized by SheVibe for Their CatalystCon Tribute Cover!
I’m beyond thrilled to be included in SheVibe’s tribute to CatalystCon … especially, amongst such incredible educators! Thanks SheVibe!

Besides Sex, What Makes You Feel R...

Besides Sex, What Makes You Feel “Alive?”  by Elle Chase
 Anais Nin and Henry Miller on Death and Dreams: I stumbled upon the above clip of Anais Nin and Henry Miller in conversation recently and couldn’t stop watching it. Two famous lovers, colleagues, icons, writers, discuss death and dreams in sometimes simple and at other times esoteric way. To me, this is a sapiosexuals dream – at [...]

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