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5 Reasons Online Dating is Practicall...

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By JoEllen Notte, June 2, 2014    5 Reasons Online Dating is Made for Introverts  Online dating gets a bad rap. Folks like to blame it for killing everything from monogamy and traditional dating to love and marriage. Folks seem to think there’s too much virtual communicating and not enough “real” connecting; that there’s decreased communicati [...]

20 Things I Didn’t Know About L...

20 Things I Didn’t Know About Love, Sex and Dating Until I Hit 40 ~ by Elle Chase
When going to a swinger’s retreat, make certain your partner isn’t packing a tiny, leather, Borat-style “unikini“ to wear at the poolside fashion show. Being “in love” and being “in lust” are both very disparate and different things that deceptively, can seem like one and the same. Sex is messy. You [...]

SEX AND THE PLUS-SIZED GAL by Elle Ch...

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  I happen to live in Los Angeles where being over a size 8 is a felony. This can be depressing when I am searching for a cute bathing suit or a stylish pair of jeans in a city that considers the ‘norm’ a size 2. At those times I like to remind myself that the average dress size for women across America and the UK is a size 14 and that a [...]

Where Sex Meets “Isms”: F...

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This panel was presented at the 2013 Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit in DC by emotional freedom coach Cathy Vartuli  from, 2013 EXXXOTICA BBW Female Performer of the Year, Kelly Shibari from iconic transgender filmmaker Buck Angel, sensuality guru Elle “Lady Cheeky” Chase from http://www.SmutForSmarties.com, and outspoken sex blogger N’Jaila R [...]

The Cheeky Weekly – Issue 4

The Cheeky Weekly – Issue 4
Why hello Smarties, September is a BUSY month with Woodhull Sexual Freedom Alliance Summit in Washington DC next week and my panel with Cathy Vartuli, Buck Angel, Kelly Shibari and N’jaila Rhee “Sex and ‘isms': From Shame to Self-Expression. (9/20/13) The following week it’s CatalystCon West in Woodland Hills, CA repr [...]

Op Ed: The Joy of Sexing a Gentleman

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By Lady Cheeky – Originally published on this site 9/27/2011 Dating in Los Angeles. I’m starting to realize it is the rare man who is actually a “gentleman.” Yes, I consider myself a feminist and a strong woman. But, I am also … a “lady.” I believe you can be both at the same time.  I want to believe that there are men out [...]

EXCLUSIVE: Sexy Excerpt From “I...

EXCLUSIVE: Sexy Excerpt From “In The Office” by Alyssa Halford
“Can you hold my sweater for me?” she whispers. “It’s a bit warm in here.” I hadn’t noticed the sweater. She arranges it on my lap. Then the penny drops. “There,” she says. “Comfortable?” “Very,” I whisper back. Am I reading this right? There is no other way. I can feel [...]

Kissing Women: Their 7 Favorite Place...

Kissing Women: Their 7 Favorite Places
By Sarah Stefanson      Originally published on AskMen.com   Chances are good that you are not using one of the best tools in your sexual arsenal to its full potential. This secret weapon is your mouth. We’re not just talking about oral sex here, although you should be giving her oral pleasure on a regular basis if you want to be a good [...]

Not Opposed or Entirely Different by ...

Not Opposed or Entirely Different by Lady Cheeky
Just because I am open does not mean I let everyone in Just because I let you in doesn’t mean I do it for everyone Just because you get a second chance doesn’t mean you’ll get a third Just because I have some hard edges doesn’t mean I’m not soft Just because I flirt with you does not mean we will fuck Just because I enjoy sex does not mean I [...]

A Users Guide: How To Show Up to F*ck...

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I loved this when I first read it and recently went back to it again. So smart. -LC By Nicole Daedone  Originally published on her blog www.NicoleDaedone.com on 8/8/12 This is what I have come to understand. There is absolutely zero context for men to know how to fuck a Turned On Woman—meaning a woman who is free, who is capable of what I cal [...]

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