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GUEST POST: Lifestyle Blogger Sarah S...

GUEST POST: Lifestyle Blogger Sarah Sapora confronts the intersection of sex and body image

A Body of Confidence (or How I Stopped Thinking and Learned to Enjoy the Intimate and Unfamiliar)style Blogger Sarah Sapora confronts the intersection of By Sara Sapora,  SarahPlusLife.com Confidence is not concrete. It is fluid and amoeba-like. Aqueous and ever changing. And just when you think you’re grasping it in your hands, it can trickle through […]

5 Reasons Online Dating is Practicall...

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By JoEllen Notte, June 2, 2014    5 Reasons Online Dating is Made for Introverts  Online dating gets a bad rap. Folks like to blame it for killing everything from monogamy and traditional dating to love and marriage. Folks seem to think there’s too much virtual communicating and not enough “real” connecting; that there’s decreased […]

20 Things I Didn't Know About Lo...

20 Things I Didn't Know About Love, Sex and Dating Until I Hit 40 ~ by Elle Chase

When going to a swinger’s retreat, make certain your partner isn’t packing a tiny, leather, Borat-style “unikini“ to wear at the poolside fashion show. Being “in love” and being “in lust” are both very disparate and different things that deceptively, can seem like one and the same. Sex is messy. You’ll need a towel. When […]

SEX AND THE PLUS-SIZED GAL by Elle Ch...

SEX AND THE PLUS-SIZED GAL by Elle Chase

    I happen to live in Los Angeles where being over a size 8 is a felony. This can be depressing when I am searching for a cute bathing suit or a stylish pair of jeans in a city that considers the ‘norm’ a size 2. At those times I like to remind myself […]

Where Sex Meets "Isms": Fro...

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This panel was presented at the 2013 Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit in DC by emotional freedom coach Cathy Vartuli  from, 2013 EXXXOTICA BBW Female Performer of the Year, Kelly Shibari from iconic transgender filmmaker Buck Angel, sensuality guru Elle “Lady Cheeky” Chase from http://www.SmutForSmarties.com, and outspoken sex blogger N’Jaila Rhee from http://www.BlasianBytch.com. Each person’s sexual self-expression is unique, and requires […]

The Cheeky Weekly – Issue 4

The Cheeky Weekly – Issue 4

Why hello Smarties, September is a BUSY month with Woodhull Sexual Freedom Alliance Summit in Washington DC next week and my panel with Cathy Vartuli, Buck Angel, Kelly Shibari and N’jaila Rhee “Sex and ‘isms’: From Shame to Self-Expression. (9/20/13) The following week it’s CatalystCon West in Woodland Hills, CA reprising the panel “Does This Panel […]

Op Ed: The Joy of Sexing a Gentleman

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By Lady Cheeky – Originally published on this site 9/27/2011 Dating in Los Angeles. I’m starting to realize it is the rare man who is actually a “gentleman.” Yes, I consider myself a feminist and a strong woman. But, I am also … a “lady.” I believe you can be both at the same time. […]

EXCLUSIVE: Sexy Excerpt From "In...

EXCLUSIVE: Sexy Excerpt From "In The Office" by Alyssa Halford

“Can you hold my sweater for me?” she whispers. “It’s a bit warm in here.” I hadn’t noticed the sweater. She arranges it on my lap. Then the penny drops. “There,” she says. “Comfortable?” “Very,” I whisper back. Am I reading this right? There is no other way. I can feel my heart start to […]

Kissing Women: Their 7 Favorite Place...

Kissing Women: Their 7 Favorite Places

By Sarah Stefanson      Originally published on AskMen.com   Chances are good that you are not using one of the best tools in your sexual arsenal to its full potential. This secret weapon is your mouth. We’re not just talking about oral sex here, although you should be giving her oral pleasure on a regular basis […]

Not Opposed or Entirely Different by ...

Not Opposed or Entirely Different by Lady Cheeky

Just because I am open does not mean I let everyone in Just because I let you in doesn’t mean I do it for everyone Just because you get a second chance doesn’t mean you’ll get a third Just because I have some hard edges doesn’t mean I’m not soft Just because I flirt with […]

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