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GUEST POST: Lifestyle Blogger Sarah S...

GUEST POST: Lifestyle Blogger Sarah Sapora confronts the intersection of sex and body image

A Body of Confidence (or How I Stopped Thinking and Learned to Enjoy the Intimate and Unfamiliar)style Blogger Sarah Sapora confronts the intersection of By Sara Sapora, Confidence is not concrete. It is fluid and amoeba-like. Aqueous and ever changing. And just when you think you’re grasping it in your hands, it can trickle through […]

Book Brevity: "Master of O"...

Book Brevity: "Master of O" by Ernest Greene

Book Brevity: Book Reviews in 300 Words or Less    Ernest Greene’s “Master of O” – I read a lot of erotica. A lot. I’m a bit of a snob when it comes to the crafting of a delicious sexy story and therefore, I’m very hard to please. In addition, BDSM is admittedly not my […]

50 Things Maggie Mayhem Has Been Mean...

50 Things Maggie Mayhem Has Been Meaning To Say About Sex

This list and it’s original title “50 Things I’ve Been Meaning To Say About Sex” originally appeared on on November 8, 2013.  If you don’t know who Maggie Mayhem is, you should – in my opinion she is one of the great minds of the sex-positive movement. I loved this list so much I wanted to […]

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Where Sex Meets "Isms": Fro...


This panel was presented at the 2013 Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit in DC by emotional freedom coach Cathy Vartuli  from, 2013 EXXXOTICA BBW Female Performer of the Year, Kelly Shibari from iconic transgender filmmaker Buck Angel, sensuality guru Elle “Lady Cheeky” Chase from, and outspoken sex blogger N’Jaila Rhee from Each person’s sexual self-expression is unique, and requires […]

Op Ed: The Joy of Sexing a Gentleman

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By Lady Cheeky – Originally published on this site 9/27/2011 Dating in Los Angeles. I’m starting to realize it is the rare man who is actually a “gentleman.” Yes, I consider myself a feminist and a strong woman. But, I am also … a “lady.” I believe you can be both at the same time. […]

Get Him Off With This Massage by Elle...

Get Him Off With This Massage by Elle Chase

This article originally appeared on  For anyone who’s heard about Tantra and has been daunted by the complexities of this eastern art of lovemaking, you might want to consider starting with a Lingam massage. In Tantra, the Lingam is the penis. In fact, in Sanskrit it means “a symbol of divine generative energy, esp. a […]

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Join me on Sexxx Talk Radio w/ Alyssa Royse tomorrow, July 3rd at 4:00 PST talking about BIG Beautiful Sex and taking questions … Call in to PRN with your questions: 888-874-4888 With a new topic each week, hosts Alyssa Royse and Lanae St. John discuss the ways that sex is shaping the world around us. Whether it’s […]

Let's Masturbate!: Experimenting...

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When I finally discovered my sensuality at age 40, I couldn’t stop masturbating. I touched myself morning, noon and night. In front of the TV, while I was on the phone, laying in bed next to my (soon to be ex) husband. I even did it while waiting in an interminable line in the drive-thru […]

Michael Douglas Was Right: What You N...


By Lady Cheeky In the past few weeks, the media has been rife with stories about actor Michael Douglas’ claim that his recent bout with throat cancer was caused by HPV.  HPV (short for Human Papillomavirus) is a sexually transmitted disease with over 150 strains, 40 of which directly affect our mucus membranes, making its transmission […]


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