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Book Brevity: "Master of O"...

Book Brevity: "Master of O" by Ernest Greene

Book Brevity: Book Reviews in 300 Words or Less    Ernest Greene’s “Master of O” – I read a lot of erotica. A lot. I’m a bit of a snob when it comes to the crafting of a delicious sexy story and therefore, I’m very hard to please. In addition, BDSM is admittedly not my […]

Secrets and Shadows by Spanking Thea...

Secrets and Shadows  by Spanking Theatre

What would be your reaction if you watched a mainstream movie with friends or family that contained a scene like this? Ostentatious delight or embarrassed chuckles? Come to think of it, how many people know of your most cherished fantasies? Have you ever felt awkward about keeping them secret? Here’s a passage that might get […]



BY ANTONIA CRANE  Orginally appeared on   on  4/5/13 Tweet sex sites are a many splendored thing, opening doors to fluid identities that are both sexy and risk-free while erecting an emotional firewall to avoid real, personal rejection. My hackles go up whenever I think about technology replacing human touch, but when I met Lady Cheeky and heard her […]

Melissa McCarthy, Rex Reed and Identi...


I shook my head recently when I read about New York Observer film critic, Rex Reed’s personal insult toward actress Melissa McCarthy.   In a review of her latest offering, Identity Thief  he called her “tractor-sized” and as big as a “hippo.”  Isn’t it interesting, I thought, that a man, who himself is part of a […]

Weightless by Lady Cheeky


I posted this picture recently on my blog, Lady Cheeky (see below) . Underneath the photo I typed the word “Gorgeous.” When I blog my photos, I do it rather quickly as I only blog the images I, personally think are sexy. I don’t always comment on photos I post, but when I do it’s because a […]

Carpe Sex! How To Change Your Sexual ...


Originally published on – January 14 2013 Ahhh January – the crisp, bracing air, the relief that the holidays are behind us and the optimistic promise of a whole new year ahead. Each January my friends, colleagues and nosy grocery store clerks ask me the dreaded question “have you made any New Year’s resolution’s?” My reply […]

Vulnerability, the last taboo? By Cyn...


Originally published on on 5/30/12 In fragile times, it’s often our most intimate and close relationships that suffer. Intimacy is the glue, the enhancer that gives us the drive to connect, and in many situations, also the factor that can be a passion killer for some and the straw that breaks the camel’s back. I […]

Lady Cheeky on Body Image & Sexua...

Lady Cheeky on Body Image & Sexuality Panel at CatalystCon East

Come see Kelly Shibari, Cathy Vartuli, Heidi Anderson, N’jaila Rhee and me, Lady Cheeky at CatalystCon East Friday, March 15, 2013 – Sunday, March 17, 2013 for our panel: Does This Panel Make Me Look Fat?: Body Image and Sexuality Sunday, March 17 at 12:00pm Crystal City Marriott at Regan Airport 1999 Jefferson Davis Hwy Arlington, VA 22202 For 2 more weeks […]

Great Potential for Great Fun by Cand...

Great Potential for Great Fun by Candida Royalle

Originally published by The New York Times ( on 11/11/12 Does Pornography Deserve it’s Bad Rap?: Watching pornography is not inherently harmful to men or women. But I would offer some caveats. There are people who probably shouldn’t view porn, like those with poor body image or those who have been sexually victimized. Depending on […]

Orgasm: The Cure for Hunger in the We...


Nicole Daedone is a sought-after speaker, author, and educator focusing on the intersection between orgasm, intimacy, and life. She is the founder of OneTaste, a cutting-edge company bringing a new definition of orgasm to women. The practice at the heart of her work is called OM or Orgasmic Meditation. OM uniquely combines the tradition of […]


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