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20 Things I Didn’t Know About L...

20 Things I Didn’t Know About Love, Sex and Dating Until I Hit 40 ~ by Elle Chase
When going to a swinger’s retreat, make certain your partner isn’t packing a tiny, leather, Borat-style “unikini“ to wear at the poolside fashion show. Being “in love” and being “in lust” are both very disparate and different things that deceptively, can seem like one and the same. Sex is messy. You [...]

COMMUNICATING YOUR SEXUAL DESIRES By ...

COMMUNICATING YOUR SEXUAL DESIRES By Lady Cheeky
George Bernard Shaw once said, “The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place”. Never has this been more apropos than in communicating our sexual desires to our partner. Let’s face it, telling your lover that you would like him to kiss you more gently or maybe even spank you a little harder, can be a bit [...]

Where Sex Meets “Isms”: F...

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This panel was presented at the 2013 Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit in DC by emotional freedom coach Cathy Vartuli  from, 2013 EXXXOTICA BBW Female Performer of the Year, Kelly Shibari from iconic transgender filmmaker Buck Angel, sensuality guru Elle “Lady Cheeky” Chase from http://www.SmutForSmarties.com, and outspoken sex blogger N’Jaila R [...]

Sex Is Back! Lady Cheeky on Her Sexua...

Sex Is Back! Lady Cheeky on Her Sexual Awakening
The Pleasure Chest wants you to know that SEX IS BACK. Last March at CatalystCon East, The Pleasure Chest was set up in conference room with a digital camera, lights and a directive: to ask people about their sex lives for their SEX IS BACK project. I took part, as did a lot of way more fascinating, interesting people including some of the se [...]

Desperately Seeking Passion by Elle C...

Desperately Seeking Passion by Elle Chase for gasm.org
 Originally published on gasm.org on October 11, 2013 At the end of her sexless marriage, Elle Chase went on a journey to seek the one thing she never had. This is the story of what she found. Recently, after turning 40 and leaving a sexless marriage, I had come to the sobering realization I had never experienced “passion.” In fact, I had n [...]

Op Ed: The Joy of Sexing a Gentleman

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By Lady Cheeky – Originally published on this site 9/27/2011 Dating in Los Angeles. I’m starting to realize it is the rare man who is actually a “gentleman.” Yes, I consider myself a feminist and a strong woman. But, I am also … a “lady.” I believe you can be both at the same time.  I want to believe that there are men out [...]

Get Him Off With This Massage by Elle...

Get Him Off With This Massage by Elle Chase
Photo from: www.sulit.com.ph This article originally appeared on www.DatingAdvice.com  For anyone who’s heard about Tantra and has been daunted by the complexities of this eastern art of lovemaking, you might want to consider starting with a Lingam massage. In Tantra, the Lingam is the penis. In fact, in Sanskrit it means “a symbol of divine [...]

“LADY CHEEKY’S SEX SATORI”...

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BY ANTONIA CRANE  Orginally appeared on TheRumpus.net   on  4/5/13 Tweet sex sites are a many splendored thing, opening doors to fluid identities that are both sexy and risk-free while erecting an emotional firewall to avoid real, personal rejection. My hackles go up whenever I think about technology replacing human touch, but when I met Lady [...]

EXCLUSIVE: Sexy Excerpt From “I...

EXCLUSIVE: Sexy Excerpt From “In The Office” by Alyssa Halford
“Can you hold my sweater for me?” she whispers. “It’s a bit warm in here.” I hadn’t noticed the sweater. She arranges it on my lap. Then the penny drops. “There,” she says. “Comfortable?” “Very,” I whisper back. Am I reading this right? There is no other way. I can feel [...]

Not Opposed or Entirely Different by ...

Not Opposed or Entirely Different by Lady Cheeky
Just because I am open does not mean I let everyone in Just because I let you in doesn’t mean I do it for everyone Just because you get a second chance doesn’t mean you’ll get a third Just because I have some hard edges doesn’t mean I’m not soft Just because I flirt with you does not mean we will fuck Just because I enjoy sex does not mean I [...]

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