Jun 292014


Where we talk Big, Beautiful Sex, The LA Academy of Sex Education and more!




Catch Me on SEX OUT LOUD with TRISTAN TAORMINOThis week Tristan is live with sex educator, writer, and coach Elle Chase aka Lady Cheeky. In addition to running her popular kinky sex blog and hot tumblr site, Chase coordinates sex ed programming at the newly formed Los Angeles Academy of Sex Education and teaches workshops on her own, including her popularBig, Beautiful Sex: Sex & Body Image” which examines fat-shaming all around us and how it gets in the way of everyone’s sexual confidence and pleasure, no matter what size clothes you wear. We’ll talk sexual communication as well as recommending toys, techniques, and positions.Catch Me on SEX OUT LOUD with TRISTAN TAORMINO

Catch Me on SEX OUT LOUD with TRISTAN TAORMINOJoin award winning author, speaker, sex educator and filmmaker Tristan Taormino as she explores the world of sexuality from every angle on her radio show Sex Out Loud™ on the Variety Channel of the VoiceAmerica Talk Radio Network. Tristan will interview leading authors, educators, artists and icons and give you an uncensored, inside look at alternative sexual practices and communities. She’ll delve into topics from the popular to the taboo, including sex education and sexual health, erotic fantasies, BDSM, non-monogamy, the adult industry, and more (see a list of guests and show topics). Tristan will answer your questions on the air and share her 15 years of experience and honest, down to earth, sex-positive advice. Open your mind and expand your erotic horizons.

Find more Tristan Taormino at:

TT’s radio show: http://www.sexoutloudradio.com
TT’s sex-positive site (adults only, NSFW): http://puckerup.com
TT’s official site: http://tristantaormino.com
TT’s open relationship site: http://openingup.net
TT on Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/TristanTaormino http://www.twitter.com/SexOutLoudRadio
TT on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/AskTristan

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Call in to talk to Tristan and her guests: 866-472-5788

May 082014

I got to cross this off of my 2014 wish list!  I love me some Sex Nerd Sandra, (really, who doesn’t?) So when Sex Nerd Sandra called me, and asked if I could come in that afternoon to record a podcast, I had to squelch a nerdy, audible ‘chirp’ of delight.

We recorded 2 shows; one on ‘Big Beautiful Sex’ and another that came from a conversation Sandra and I were having about me taking a break from dating. The other half of this current episode of the Sex Nerd Sandra Podcast is her conversation with brilliant, sex-positive therapist, Kate Loree, LMFT who shares her insightful opinions on dating and making good choices. I learned a lot from listening to Kate, and I know you will too. So, even if you’re sick of me, check out Sandra and Kate’s half of the podcast you’ll be glad you did I promise. :)

Please to enjoy, HERE




For more on Sex Nerd Sandra:                                                For more on Kate Loree, LMFT:

Web: www.SexNerdSandra.com                                             Web:  www.KateLoree.com

Twitter: @SexNerdSandra                                                        Email: kloreelmft@gmail.com

Facebook: www.facebook.com/sexnerdsandra                  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kates.loreelmft


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Feb 102014
Outer Focus Photo/Brigette Sullivan

Ken Melvoin Berg … (swoon) … Ken Melvoin Berg …

“say it loud and there’s music play-ing,
                            … say it soft, and it’s almost like pray-ing”

I don’t break out the West Side Story for just anyone so you can probably guess I have a big, ol’ stupid, sloppy, dippy, awkward, sapiosexual, carnal college crush on Ken Melvoin-Berg. The kind of crush that makes even the most vivacious of personalities, clam -up, giggle and blush when he’s around. I thought I should come clean, right up front, before I go on and on about him, and before you finish his favorite things (you’ll see why). This way we’re all on the same page, and you can experience his list like I did, for the first time (giggle/blush) except I doubt you will giggle and blush at the end.

Ken Melvoin-Berg is one of the most interesting people you’ll come across. He is a sex-educator, entrepreneur, author, business owner, lecturer, consultant, co-host, psychic, psychic detective and proud Chicagoen. Yep, all those things.  I met Ken Melvoin-Berg at the same time I met his fiancee/partner, the incomparable sex educator, Sunny Megatron last year, right before they gave a G-spot and Female Ejaculation class at a the famous BDSM/Fetish shop, The Stockroom in Los Angeles. I’ve been smitten with both of them ever since.

Drinks after class with Ken Melvoin-Berg and Sunny Megatron

Drinks after class with Ken Melvoin-Berg and Sunny Megatron

Known in the sex education world as a consummate professional with expertise in all things kinky and sexy. Ken has a natural showmanship that feels part professorial and part carnival barker … and I mean that as a compliment. He is a sapiosexual’s dream, waxing philosophic on some erudite topic one minute and talking about Wartenberg Wheels whilst he twists his handle-bar mustache the next. This fully tatted, clown sex lovin’, PT Barnum of Sex Education and it doesn’t stop there. Ken co-hosts a web series on (what else) sex with Sunny called “Outside the Box with Sunny Megatron” on Inside Adult, he owns the lauded Weird Chicago Tours, where visitors and residents alike can enjoy excursion ranging from Chicago Ganster Tours to a Red Light District Tour. Ken has also co-written a book on Weird Chicago paranormals that you must check out. Yup, a renaissance man of the fringe. If you ever get a chance to check out Ken and Sunny’s sex ed classes, you should because they are as entertaining as they are informative … and they are VERY informative.


So here we go … 5 sex toys and a lube from the salacious and sexy, Ken Melvoin-Berg:



1. Fun Factory Cobra Libre: This is the best #1 go-to toy for men. The only problems with it are that people think it’s a space age vacuum cleaner and has a steep learning curve in understanding its uses. It seems short, but like my favorite game, just the tip is all you need. Turn on your favorite porn and the dual motors and rock out with your cock out.You can give yourself a handy or just grind itno it to get off. It is like a concave hitachi for people with cocks.


l_lr-10452. Tenga Fliphole Black If you ever wondered what Cthulhu’s vagina looks like, take off the outer case and open up. When it’s put back together apply your favorite lube, stick cock in hole, press the three buttons to massage your willy, repeat and blast your baby batter into the fliphole.




3. nJoy Pure Wand #1 Greg from nJoy invented this because he is a brilliant engineer and a perverted man, just like me. It’s the best multi-purpose toy on the market, You can get someone’s g-spot off and make her squirt, get your own p-spot massaged, and use it in hand-to-hand combat as a bludgeoning weapon.


SE-1375-20-34. Cal Exotics Silicone Jack Rabbit Ring: This toy is a slice of heaven, wrapped in bacon and dipped in chocolate. It has two motors that are strong enough to get you hard in seconds. Rest your flaccid man-meat on the ears like an armrest for wiener. In a few seconds, BOING! Boner city baby. Then use it during vaginal/anal penetration and the ears can actually stimulate both of you at once. Two birds, one stone. It’s the best cock ring on the market and a must have for all people with cocks.



ECKINKLY5. Lady Cheeky This scarlet haired temptress from the land of fuck is not really a toy, unless she wills it so. She can give the most amazing swirly things on your cock with her mouth, play your balls like a percussionist for a Mozart symphony, fuck you until your drained of all fluids, or at least that what it’s like in my head.



… and a lube

mmuNp0G4_esI24PrS8agJvAWicked Ultra Chill Silicone Lube: For dudes, lube is a toy. Wicked silicone lube is the best lube ever!! Silicone lube is mana from heaven. It is hypoallergenic, vegan, pH balanced as to not hurt your cock, lady parts or ass. The temperature additive is unlike any other, it won’t freeze your junk off like a polar vortex. Instead it’s like a cool breeze that whispers ,”Cum for me man-beast!” to your cock.

You can get more Ken Melvoin-Berg at:

Web: Weird Chicago Tours
Twitter: @Psychicken
Facebook: www.facebook.com/Psychicken

and here’s his latest piece on Sunny’s website about Service Topping from the Bottom

… and check out Ken and Sunny talk about clown sex on the Sex Nerd Sandra Podcast,
Click on the pic!




For more on his sex ed classes with Sunny Megatron,
Click on the Pic!


The above photo of Sunny and Ken and the top photo of Ken by Outer Focus Photo/Brigette Sullivan




Sep 062013

LC CheekyWeekly

It’s been another banner week here in the Cheeky household. DatingAdvice.com named www.LadyCheeky.com, one of their “Best Kinky Sex Blogs,”  RevelBody sent me their sonic vibrator. I am so excited to try it. I saw it at ANME this year and couldn’t wait to have my body connect with it’s proprietary sonic vibrations. Who knows, tonight my be the night! Also, my friend and fellow Sex Educator,  Ashley Manta and her man moved to L.A. – 4 blocks from me! Tonight is Sex Geekdom L.A. where I will be able to fraternize with other geeks of the sexual variety and next week promises to be cooler. Even better, I’ve found some cool links for you:


Sex in the Middle Ages: 10 Titillating Facts You Wanted to Know But Were Afraid to Ask

Fascinating! This is a lil taste:

“For a time, the Church actually approved of prostitution. Ironically, the practice was regarded as a way of preventing adultery and homosexuality on a larger scale, so it was viewed a necessary evil. St. Thomas Aquinas, one of the sterner theologians, wrote: “If prostitution were to be suppressed, careless lusts would overthrow society.”  Mmm Hmmm. you read that right, sista.

I Wanna Know Where Love Is: The First Brain Map of Love and Desire

When was the last time you thought about your insula and striatum? Not in a long time, you say? Well start thinkin’. Scientists believe they have pinpointed the parts of the brain responsible for taking us from sexual desire to love and releasing all those awesome chemicals that make us joyful, crazy horny and high as a kite. How you say? Well it has something to do with that nutty Russian Pavlov …

Naomi Wolf and Jim Pfaus Talk Sex

If you liked the previous story, sit back and get comfortable. I recently had the pleasure of speaking electronically with Dr. Pfaus of Concordia University, when after being inspired by his research, I contacted him with a question. He was delightful, wicked smart and posses a delicious enjoyment of curse words. He is one of the only scientists doing sex research today, and what his behavior experiments with rats show will fascinate you. Naomi Wolf is also a smart cookie and whether you like her or not, she brings up great issues and reports on her own experiences with orgasm and sexuality related to her vagina. Oh, that happens to also be the name of her latest book, Vagina: A New Biography. If you’re a sex geek like me, you’re going to love this YouTube video.

Smut For Smarties Email List

Ok, so this is a cheap way to ask you to sign up, burying this blatant request in a weekly feature. But, this is what I’ve been reduced to because I can’t, in good conscience, make my sign-up badge bigger on my site. Here’s the dealio … You sign-up, and once a month you get a sexy little newsletter from me. If that wasn’t enough, Every 50th person that signs up will get a great PRIZE! I have vibrators, condom packs, memberships to cool websites, books and other nice sex toys and paraphernalia. So what do you have to lose?Uh … NOTHING!  CLICK HERE

Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit 2013

The Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit  in Silver Springs, MD, is the event where all of the personal and political elements of the sexual freedom movement come together. With speakers like Buck Angel, Gloria Brame, Heather Corinna … oh, and ME!  It’s going to be a great time from cutting edge and informative presentations to entertainment like the premiere of “Mr. Angel” a documentary on Buck Angel and sex educator and podcaster extrordinaire, Sandra Daugherty will be doing her famous Nerdist Industries, Sex Nerd Sandra podcast from the Summit. It will be a great time. I hope to see you there September 19-22nd! And the following weekend, join me at …

CatalystCon West:  Sparking Communication in Sexuality, Activism and Acceptance – Woodland Hills, CA

Dr. Jocelyn Elders will giving the closing keynote plenary address at this biannual sexuality conference. That’s pretty huge. If that’s not enough to tempt you to come to this inspiring conference, every sex geek from San Diego to Monterey will be there. Sessions will consist of topics from ethical non-monogamy, Sex with Benefits: Progressive Swinging to How to be a Sex Positive Educator (When You Still Love Your Day Job) to my own, Does This Panel Make Me Look Fat?: Body Image and Sexuality. The entertainment is always stellar and includes Dixie De LaTour’s iconic Bawdy Storytelling where you’ll get to hear all your favorite educators tell salacious stories from their past! If you are a Sex Out Loud with Tristan Taormino fan you’ll be in heaven. Tristan is offering her always sold out, Sex Educator Bootcamp 1&2, she will  be on a panel and will be taping her highly rated podcast from Catalyst as well! This is not to be missed. I always feel the high for a week after Catalyst and you will too. See you there, September 27 – 29

That’s enough for now! Enjoy your week and remember … SMART IS SEXY!


Jul 172013

LAWEEKLY2013Being a Los Angeles native, there’s no local cultural news source more revered than the LA Weekly. As a teen, my friends and I would get on the Santa Monica Bus with our Walkmans and our Aqua Net crusted hair to hungrily wait outside Hamburger Hamlet in Westwood every Thursday for the latest edition of LA Weekly to be plopped down outside the door.  Only then could we plan our weekend of ska and punk band hopping and boy gazing while we walked arm in arm over to ‘Aahs’ for Robert Smith paraphernalia.

The LA Weekly is iconic for me. So imagine my surprise when today, I accidentally stumbled upon the LA Weekly Best of the Web 2013 and saw that Smut For Smarties was nominated for Best Sex Blog, alongside one of my heroes and possibly one of the coolest people alive, Sex Nerd Sandra.

Well, my jaw hit the floor.

Please take a minute and vote for me?

Then take another minute and vote for Sex Nerd Sandra

Over and over and over again.  ;)  Voting ends July 19th so get to it! ;)

xox LC

For more Sex Nerd Sandra listen to her podcasts on iTunes and check out her rad blog at www.sexnerdsandra.com on Twitter @SexNerdSandra

For more LA Weekly check out www.laweekly.com and Best of the Web 2013 or on Twitter @LAWeekly


Jun 072013

If you weren’t in Los Angeles for Bawdy Storytelling, No Holds Barred at the fabulous El Cid in April and missed my story … here it is should you want to

take a listen by clicking the link below. 

Lady Cheeky Cheeky Swings at Bawdy Storytelling LA!


Now, go buy your tickets for the next L.A. Bawdy Storytelling show which I promise will be a SEX GEEK BLOWOUT!

Get tickets HERE for ‘Bawdy’s Sex Geek Secrets’ on JUNE 27th at BUSBY’s EAST which will feature a live 100th Anniversary podcast of Nerdist’s SEX NERD SANDRA!

Performers include:
– Nerdist.com sex blogger Sex Nerd Sandra
– Sex educator & Role Model Reid Mihalko
– Physicist & Pornstar Ned Mayhem
– Music by Windows to Sky
- Way more storytellers to come!

next_event_staticThank you Dixie De La Tour for inviting me and for coaching me through the scary! Thank you Ethan Feerst for being a tech wizard and cutting my piece so I could have it for posterity!


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