Posts tagged Sexual Communication



George Bernard Shaw once said, “The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place”. Never has this been more apropos than in communicating our sexual desires to our partner. Let’s face it, telling your lover that you would like him to kiss you more gently or maybe even spank you […]

50 Things Maggie Mayhem Has Been Meaning To Say About ...

50 Things Maggie Mayhem Has Been Meaning To Say About Sex

This list and it’s original title “50 Things I’ve Been Meaning To Say About Sex” originally appeared on on November 8, 2013.  If you don’t know who Maggie Mayhem is, you should – in my opinion she is one of the great minds of the sex-positive movement. I loved this list so much I wanted to […]

Op Ed: The Joy of Sexing a Gentle...

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By Lady Cheeky – Originally published on this site 9/27/2011 Dating in Los Angeles. I’m starting to realize it is the rare man who is actually a “gentleman.” Yes, I consider myself a feminist and a strong woman. But, I am also … a “lady.” I believe you can be both at the same time. […]

Lady Cheeky Swings at Bawdy Storytelli...


If you weren’t in Los Angeles for Bawdy Storytelling, No Holds Barred at the fabulous El Cid in April and missed my story … here it is should you want to take a listen by clicking the link below.  Lady Cheeky Cheeky Swings at Bawdy Storytelling LA! Now, go buy your tickets for the next L.A. […]

Not Opposed or Entirely Different by Lady Che...

Not Opposed or Entirely Different by Lady Cheeky

Just because I am open does not mean I let everyone in Just because I let you in doesn’t mean I do it for everyone Just because you get a second chance doesn’t mean you’ll get a third Just because I have some hard edges doesn’t mean I’m not soft Just because I flirt with […]

A Users Guide: How To Show Up to F*ck a Turned On Woman by Nicole Daed...


I loved this when I first read it and recently went back to it again. So smart. -LC By Nicole Daedone  Originally published on her blog on 8/8/12 This is what I have come to understand. There is absolutely zero context for men to know how to fuck a Turned On Woman—meaning a woman who […]

Vulnerability, the last taboo? By Cyndi Darn...


Originally published on on 5/30/12 In fragile times, it’s often our most intimate and close relationships that suffer. Intimacy is the glue, the enhancer that gives us the drive to connect, and in many situations, also the factor that can be a passion killer for some and the straw that breaks the camel’s back. I […]

Jada Pinkett-Smith: “The War on Men Through the Degradation of Wom...


From Intentblog 12/6/12 After speaking out against critics of her daughter Willow’s new haircut, the mega-articulate actress and activist Jada Pinkett-Smith earlier this week used her Facebook platform to bring awareness to a much larger issue: how the degradation of women in the media negatively affects both men and women. Talk about a woman who knows how to use her words as […]

Anal Sex: Science’s Last Taboo By Debby Herben...


A new — and almost entirely unreported — study about anal sex and pain shows how little we really know about it That anal sex remains taboo may explain why a study about anodyspareunia – that is, pain during anal penetration – received little attention when it was published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy. […]

Me Jane, You Tarzan: The Politics of Sexual Polar...


BY LORI LOTHIAN ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED ON WWW.THEGOODMENPROJECT.COM 11/17/12  Lori Ann Lothian wants to know if she’s wrong for wanting to be ‘ravished’. First time I was ravished, I was 23. It was in a university building stairwell. He grabbed my hair in one fist, pressed me against the cool cement wall and kissed me with such ardor […]


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